Frankasy Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 When you break up with a gf or after you've proposed to a girl and she's rejected you, do you talk to each other anymore? I personally don't cause I don't believe that love could be turned into friendship, only the other way around. Plus it would seem kinda awkward to talk about relationships and dating to your ex when you two have been there once. I'm curious on what you normally do in these situations?
CaliGuy Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 Short answer: No. There's no reason to be "buddies" if you have an emotional investment in someone who doesn't feel the say way you do. If someone can give up so easily on me, they don't deserve me in their life in any fashion.
Author Frankasy Posted September 22, 2008 Author Posted September 22, 2008 Short answer: No. There's no reason to be "buddies" if you have an emotional investment in someone who doesn't feel the say way you do. If someone can give up so easily on me, they don't deserve me in their life in any fashion. Well the emotions are gone or never existed(The relationship was just for fun or to make someone jealous). I mean it just feels weird. I like what you just said. Very powerful.
BCCA Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 When you break up with a gf or after you've proposed to a girl and she's rejected you, do you talk to each other anymore? I personally don't cause I don't believe that love could be turned into friendship, only the other way around. Plus it would seem kinda awkward to talk about relationships and dating to your ex when you two have been there once. I'm curious on what you normally do in these situations? I tried to convince myself that it could be a good idea before. Its really not. All that youll ever get from them is hurt and reminders that they left you. I would rather drink a gallon of bleach before listen to my ex's stories about what guys she's dating, etc. Wont do me any good. And I tried to be there as a friend when we were together. During that time, we were both getting what we wanted. Well, now I'm not, so she gets nothing from me. Its usually only temporarily anyway. You'll work when they dont have anyone, and when they do, youll be promptly s**t all over again and left in the cold. No thanks.
EmperorR Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 Short answer: No. There's no reason to be "buddies" if you have an emotional investment in someone who doesn't feel the say way you do. If someone can give up so easily on me, they don't deserve me in their life in any fashion. Listen to CaliGuy, the only reason they want to be "friends" is because most likely you were their best friend for the duration of the relationship, and they still want that person to txt call, chat on msn yahoo aol etc., let them use their next bf or gf for that.
EmperorR Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 Short answer: No. There's no reason to be "buddies" if you have an emotional investment in someone who doesn't feel the say way you do. If someone can give up so easily on me, they don't deserve me in their life in any fashion. I tried to convince myself that it could be a good idea before. Its really not. All that youll ever get from them is hurt and reminders that they left you. I would rather drink a gallon of bleach before listen to my ex's stories about what guys she's dating, etc. Wont do me any good. And I tried to be there as a friend when we were together. During that time, we were both getting what we wanted. Well, now I'm not, so she gets nothing from me. Its usually only temporarily anyway. You'll work when they dont have anyone, and when they do, youll be promptly s**t all over again and left in the cold. No thanks. yup, I agree, talking ot my ex alreadly heads over heels for some guy, of course you know your ex more than anyone else, i was with my girl for 3 yeras and i told her its going to fail, not because I want it to fail, because I know her and no guy will be a sucker like me. And i also agree your only friends untill they find their new bf or gf, is a new bf or gf comfortable with their gf or bf talking to there ex? i doubt that i wouldn't
ahhhchooo Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 I want it to fail, because I know her and no guy will be a sucker like me. Maybe you over-estimate mankind, lol
EmperorR Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 Maybe you over-estimate mankind, lol lol, how many guys are going to give up all their passwords, all the girls they grew up with, don't go out late, and stay with soemone who is cranky and cries all the time, i still believe i was one in a mill
BCCA Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 lol, how many guys are going to give up all their passwords, all the girls they grew up with, don't go out late, and stay with soemone who is cranky and cries all the time, i still believe i was one in a mill Funny thing is they could meet some complete douche that wouldnt do any of that and be happy lol Life is just NOT fair. I'm honestly starting to think that being a nice guy hasn't gotten me much but taken advantage of.
ahhhchooo Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 Funny thing is they could meet some complete douche that wouldnt do any of that and be happy lol Life is just NOT fair. I'm honestly starting to think that being a nice guy hasn't gotten me much but taken advantage of. Yuh-huh. I'm with you guys. I'm a typical "nice guy". I wasn't so much when I met my ex, but I willingly let her mold me into this. Now she's run away with my manhood (not to mention how OUT OF SHAPE I have become) and I need to find it again. I tried to find that "No More Mr. Nice Guy" book but it wasn't available and I'd have to order it in from the states
Intergalactic Posted September 23, 2008 Posted September 23, 2008 maybe it's just me, but i like nice guys. probably because i'm a nice girl.
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