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What do you mean when you say "propose"?

 

Even in Toronto, that typically means "ask someone to marry you".

 

If your proposal is a plan of how you can be BF/GF and not see each other often, then that would work better AFTER she has told you that she likes you romantically. You seem to really be jumping the gun here on a lot of issues - living together, etc, when it has been plainly said that she doesn't want to date you.

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No, don't.

 

These are two different threads.

 

You created them, so I can either merge them, or leave them as they are, but please let's not cause confusion by leaping from one thread to the other. it ruins continuity for others.

 

Which is it to be?

 

Oh ok, I'm sorry. Just leave the threads as they are, I will manage. Thanks for the heads up.

 

What do you mean when you say "propose"?

 

Even in Toronto, that typically means "ask someone to marry you".

 

If your proposal is a plan of how you can be BF/GF and not see each other often, then that would work better AFTER she has told you that she likes you romantically. You seem to really be jumping the gun here on a lot of issues - living together, etc, when it has been plainly said that she doesn't want to date you.

 

Propose = ask a girl to be your gf.

 

Well no, my plan isn't like that at all and when she mentioned the issue about distance in my last proposal, I said that it would only be temporarily and distance would even make our relationship stronger, if we could have managed to stay away from each other for 9 months than we'd be a solid couple and she was fine with that.

 

Plus if it's any help, after she refused me she said that when guys normally approached her to propose she would refuse them right away, without even listening and her older sister backed her up on this. She said that I was the only guy so far that she had listened to. Plus she never said that she would never date me, just the timing wasn't right. The timing will be right after a year with them creating more trust on me etc.

 

See where I'm trying to go?

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