BaD_Day Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 I've never been much of a phone person, and I've seen guys/girls do this all the time (calling just to talk) What the hell can you even talk about? I rather talk over dinner/food or do something while talking, phone just doesn't do it for me. And does it seem desperate to call someone just to talk (for a guy)
rod_in_gtown Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 I'd also like to hear what women think about this. I've been battling whether or not call Jen while her work slows down this past week but have been holding back. She did call me on Thursday. This week is supposed to be t-minus zero work-wise so I don't know if she'd enjoy a short "hi" call or would that just annoy her.
oceangrl Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 Calling just to talk or asking her about her day isn't a sign of desperation to me. I think its thoughtful. It doesn't have to be a long conversation either. Just talk about new developments in your life or plans for later that day or things that they might have going on during the work week or things you want to do during the weekend.
Green Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 I never call anyone just to talk accept my family and friends who are living to far away to visit with and then its more like calling to stay in touch then calling just to talk
audrey_1 Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 I don't mind a call once in a while. Not every day, but once or twice a week is fine. I do get busy with work, tennis after work, stuff in between. It's hard to balance it all. Not that I don't care and don't want to talk, just that I want it to count when we do. I've grown a bit weary of texting and emaiing lately. There have been instances of misunderstanding that required a voice conversation to clear up. It's probably always better to just talk somehow. I wish both men and women would get over seeming "weak" if they reach out. I wish people would just call when they're compelled within reason.
Green Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 I don't mind a call once in a while. Not every day, but once or twice a week is fine. I do get busy with work, tennis after work, stuff in between. It's hard to balance it all. Not that I don't care and don't want to talk, just that I want it to count when we do. I've grown a bit weary of texting and emaiing lately. There have been instances of misunderstanding that required a voice conversation to clear up. It's probably always better to just talk somehow. I wish both men and women would get over seeming "weak" if they reach out. I wish people would just call when they're compelled within reason. I'm over seeming weak, seeming like a creep, seeming like a jerk I do what I want better believe it
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