dark1san Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 We've been talking for about 2 months now and went out 3 times, I started to see how I was feeling about her just after this 3rd date, I'm just a very shy person about these kind of things and I want to let her know how I feel just I think also I'm afraid of rejection again. I took the 3rd date as a good sign, as seeing most of the other women I've went out with never called me back after the 1st date, and the one's who I went out with after the 2nd date just dissappeared off the face of the Earth. We both told each other we had a really great time again after the 3rd date. HELP!!!! Sorry I just am not too forward with people and am at a loss how to show my feelings towards her.
westrock Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 Compliment her. Smile at her. Flirt with her. Call her. Ask her out again. All of the above.
D-Lish Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 It's simple- ask her out again. I don't think you have to progress to actually telling her you like her- that will be evident by your actions. It's too soon to reveal that, and it's not necessary at this point to make any rash statements that could scare her away. Just let things happen naturally. Ask her out again, keep lots of eye contact, even put your hand on top of hers across the table. A guy I was dating did this with me. On our third date we were having an intense dicsussion, leaning into one another and he reached across the table and held my hands as we talked. Lean toward her when you talk- see if she mirrors those actions. Keep eye contact and listen when she speaks. Smile a lot. You'll be on the right track.
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