Lucky555 Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 I am perplexed with my feelings haha. I feel weird about dating other people again its feels odd. Break up-6 months ago..on an off for 2 yrs...so total together time 1 yr and maybe 4 months. So I am young and i know heartbreaks happen. BUT it just feels so weird MOTIVATING myself. I am not motivated to date at all ,yet i would like to have someone. I totally drive myself nuts. Maybe when i meet the right person to date i might feel motivated? Ever seen those movies where the person stays drenched in their rooms and they don't come out because of a break up....Well thats not me but i feel like that. Maybe the fact that everyone of my friends has a "great bf" maybe i want one too? It would be nice.....but ugh i need some help here. What can i do for motivation for dating? I am laughing at myself because I can help everyone except myself.
paddington bear Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 Sounds like you're still depressed and heartbroken and that's not going to change over night. I'd say forget about dating and try and do any other things that give you pleasure, just so you feel happy about life again, and once you're happy then the motivation to date will come back. Not the other way around.
djhall Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 Ever seen those movies where the person stays drenched in their rooms and they don't come out because of a break up....Well thats not me but i feel like that. Okay, now I'm thinking this statement is weird and I'm perplexed. What movies is this in, and why are they soaking wet? Are they staying in the bath or shower all the time after the breakup?
Author Lucky555 Posted September 22, 2008 Author Posted September 22, 2008 "drenched in their rooms" well consumed is probably the proper term here. Yeah maybe i should just focus on me. Is it weird to not be over someone 6 months later? I can say i don't feel like i want to be back in my situation or with someone whose not good for me. But, I don't know how to "fix" me. Maybe there are no instant fixes? I'll take some more time out.
djhall Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 "drenched in their rooms" well consumed is probably the proper term here. Okay, there is a rarely used definition of consumed that would seem to work there, though on first read through it came across as something was eating them.
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