DunnoWhat Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 I met a girl a few months ago. She's from Northern Europe and after our date (which lasted only about 1 hour because she had people waiting for her) she had to go home but we kept in contact. The date was ok. She was shy so it's hard to read what she thought although she sent me an email straight away when she went home. We were emailing each other about once a day but eventually it became once every few days and then once a week and longer. One day I asked "hows that sexy friend of mine" and after that she seemed to be more interested. About a months ago she told me she is coming in october and wondered did I want to meet up for a night. I agreed and we arranged that we'd stay in a hotel. I offered to pay for a room for her but she turned it down saying she'd feel she would owe me something. Then I suggested getting a room with 2 beds and she said a single was fine. Then I suggested sleeping on the floor and she said "we can share a bed if you like". I naturally agreed after 'careful' consideration. For the last month we're emailing every day and she even texted me once. Also she seemed worried one day when I didn't email her for a few days. So I'm wondering does she like me or just looking for somebody to give her a good night out?
paddington bear Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 She's European = read not so hung up on the whole sex thing. If she says she's happy sharing a bed then she means it and go for it.
Author DunnoWhat Posted September 22, 2008 Author Posted September 22, 2008 She doesn't say how she feels about me but she did say she never tells men her feelings and most women are like that.
Vertex Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 I think it's quite clear that she likes you.
The Collector Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 Always Assume The Sale. But seriously, you think of she didn't likey you she'd have turned down the offer of separate beds to save you a buck? Have some confidence. Spot a green light. Women like sex.
Author DunnoWhat Posted September 22, 2008 Author Posted September 22, 2008 Always Assume The Sale. But seriously, you think of she didn't likey you she'd have turned down the offer of separate beds to save you a buck? Have some confidence. Spot a green light. Women like sex. I wasn't 100% sure. I know she likes me but don't know how much. I like the 'assume the sale' saying. Thats a good mindset to have.
The Collector Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 I like the 'assume the sale' saying. Thats a good mindset to have. It's served me well.
djhall Posted September 22, 2008 Posted September 22, 2008 As someone who has made this mistake a few times, when a woman is willing to share a bed with you, more often than not she is interested to some extent.
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