anya85 Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 So my boyfriend of 2-3 months thinks things moved too quickly between us. We are exclusive, he's not seeing any one else, I'm not seeing any one else. He assures me he doesn't want to break up, he just thinks things moved too quickly in the beginning. He says he really likes me, we have a lot in common, we have a good time together. He wants to try to slow things down, but still talk and hang out the same amount, just without the sex. To get to know each other better. Ok, sounds good. But he still initiates sex every time I see him. What on earth does that mean? HE wants to slow the sex down and then tries to have sex? How am I suppose to react to this? I've been just going along with it, I mean he IS my boyfriend and I don't have any problems having sex. But then he mentioned the "slow down" thing again. Should I be telling him no? Should I just say "You said you thought it was a good idea for things to slow down, and I agree with that. So let's slow down." and change the subject? Advice please. :/
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