MusicChick24 Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 Please give advice without judgement please. That being said... I have posted several times about the escapades that of my boyfriend of three years and I. I'm very much in love with him but after we recently got back together I have to make sure I'm "perfect" 24/7 or he acts like he's going to leave me because he knows it upsets me. I've been talking to this guy who is 11 years older than me. He's not a "predator" and I am of age in any case. I met him in an internship and he's fun to talk to and hang out with, we used to work out together over the summer. He's really nice and he knows what it's like to hurt over someone who doesn't care whether you are hurting or not so we relate alot, and I can feel a vibe. But he's the kind of guy that doesn't plan to marry a girl unless something is obviously good about the relationship. I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend but I don't know what to do. The other guy is alot older than me but we vibe more and girls tell me alot that older guys tend to be good catches. It isn't anything creepy. There is no strain for sex or anything. What should I do?
JoeNewbie Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 You have many options: 1) You stick with your boyfriend because you really love him and think that you can sort out your issues. 2) You dump your boyfriend because the relationship is dead anyway and you date the new guy. 3) You stick with your boyfriend but go out with the new guy just to see what happens. 4) You stick with your boyfriend but have sex with the new guy just for the thrill. 5) You tell your boyfriend you want to have a break to sort things out. Then you go out with the new guy and have sex with him. Reconsider your decision after a couple of weeks.
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