If you were sexually involved with someone and it ended, would you date their brother

[almost famous]

or sister?

[NativeMetalGrl]

wow... keepin' it in the family..

can't say as I would.. I think it would create too much tension between the siblings.. but.. that would depend on how it ended and if everyone's cool with the new arrangements.

You'd have to go case-by-case on this one.

[Jilly Bean]

Never.

 

Which sucks, because my morality on this issue prevents me from also dating a Dad/son combo. Eh.

[Cherry Blossom 35]

I've done it twice.

 

Once identical twins.

 

It creates a lot of tension/competition between the brothers. Which is kinda hot.

[carhill]

How deep is that rabbit hole? Cousins? Second cousins? Friends? Acquaintances? Anyone who "knows" the person or has significant contact with them? Anyone they might have gushed to about how "in love" they were with me? What if I knew one sister first and knew she was attracted to me, but dated the other instead because the attraction was mutual? Would the second sister have "betrayed" the first? Did I disrespect both by being honest? The scenarios are endless....

 

I might be a bit more sensitive regarding someone I was married to and divorced, especially with kids, but casual sexual involvements or dating? Too much angst for this guy worrying about what everyone else thinks or feels. If both parties have moved on emotionally (no latent feelings or unfinished business) one could only think they'd have variables of indifference to good wishes as feelings for their former partner. This perspective takes time, and, IME, time precious few people are willing to take.

[almost famous]

Never.

 

Which sucks, because my morality on this issue prevents me from also dating a Dad/son combo. Eh.

 

Lol, that made me chuckle a bit.

[Capricciosa]

I've done it twice.

 

Once identical twins.

 

It creates a lot of tension/competition between the brothers. Which is kinda hot.

 

I also did the identical twins. Can't say I noticed the tension, but I have absolutely no regrets, and have fond memories of both of them.

[Cherry Blossom 35]

I also did the identical twins. Can't say I noticed the tension, but I have absolutely no regrets, and have fond memories of both of them.

 

Ahh...me too. I only found out about the tension way after the fact. I am still friends with one of them. The other one lives very far away and is married.

[Trialbyfire]

If I had sex with the sister, I wouldn't date the brother or sister.

[xpaperxcutx]

Wouldn't it be kind of weird if the relationship ends up with you married, and you're automatically, the sister- in- law?

 

I've never been in a situation where I date brothers/sisters, unless they're actually attractive enough to lure me in the trap.

[westernxer]

Not if they're twins, cause then I'd be dating the same person.

[2sunny]

i did. and i married one of them - and stayed married to him for 20 years.

 

the other brother - the one i originally dated, married and his wife was never aware that we dated. when we went out on a date - he was also dating her at the time. no, we didn't have sex - just dinner. his W would be furious if she had ever known that we had dated... oh well... better that we never told.

 

then a few years later i met and started dating my xH - his brother. my xH was aware that i had dated his brother on a few occasions.

 

geez, in writing it seems complicated - but it's not.

[xpaperxcutx]

i did. and i married one of them - and stayed married to him for 20 years.

 

the other brother - the one i originally dated, married and his wife was never aware that we dated. when we went out on a date - he was also dating her at the time. no, we didn't have sex - just dinner. his W would be furious if she had ever known that we had dated... oh well... better that we never told.

 

then a few years later i met and started dating my xH - his brother. my xH was aware that i had dated his brother on a few occasions.

 

geez, in writing it seems complicated - but it's not.

 

Hmm that does sounds complicated. What made you decide to delve into similar gene pools?

[djhall]

I've done it twice.

 

Once identical twins.

 

It creates a lot of tension/competition between the brothers. Which is kinda hot.

Damn you overachievers! Does getting oral sex from two sisters count?

 

So we have LS members who have copped to brothers/sisters and identical twins. Anyone willing to go even further and claim a mother/daughter, father/son, or heaven forbid, a gender crossing brother and sister combo?