Simplycaroline Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 By someone that you care about and that at one time cared about you is one of the hardest things to live with. Particularly when you still live with them. I am moving forward and though this hurts me very much and still given to fits of crying (when alone) I have to say that over all I am at peace with myself and sincerely wish for his happiness and mine. I have goals for my life. I have had a few men want to meet me already but I just can't do it. Not because I hope that we get together again because for some strange reason I really do not want to. I do not wish to be with anyone that doesn't want to be with me. Even if he changes his mind mine is the same. I never want to go through this again.
Issues & tissues Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 By someone that you care about and that at one time cared about you is one of the hardest things to live with. I agree. This is one of the hardest and most painful things I've ever had to deal with. Though I can honestly say that 9 months on and strict NC I am slowly beginning to detox myself of him. Like any detox program it has not been easy but it was worth it. As for me, I continued living with my ex for a whole month after he had announced that "it was over" (we had been living together for 10 years). It was probably the worst month of my entire life. Sweetie, one of you needs to get out ASAP. Continuing to live together is not going to help either of you and most certainly not your healing. You need to distance yourself from him both physically and emotionally and IMHO the best way to do that is NC. Good Luck and keep us posted!
Author Simplycaroline Posted September 20, 2008 Author Posted September 20, 2008 I agree. This is one of the hardest and most painful things I've ever had to deal with. Though I can honestly say that 9 months on and strict NC I am slowly beginning to detox myself of him. Like any detox program it has not been easy but it was worth it. As for me, I continued living with my ex for a whole month after he had announced that "it was over" (we had been living together for 10 years). It was probably the worst month of my entire life. Sweetie, one of you needs to get out ASAP. Continuing to live together is not going to help either of you and most certainly not your healing. You need to distance yourself from him both physically and emotionally and IMHO the best way to do that is NC. Good Luck and keep us posted! Thank you for your words. We are now working on that. I will have another boat soon.
Author Simplycaroline Posted September 20, 2008 Author Posted September 20, 2008 About this and not be emotional and rash because we are also business partners and there is a lot to be lost here. I put a lot of work into to this so it is not so easy for me to walk away. He is not asking me to. To be honest it is difficult but he is not being mean or anything. He wants me to prosper as much as he wants to. I am looking at other boats but like I said nothing can be done until the one that we have sells
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