love2run Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 I think I am a really nice person, but no one ever wants to hang out with me. What makes it worse is I have a huge gap in my teeth and a big, swollen, crooked nose because I broke it 5 years ago and the swelling hasn't gone down. I've never had a girlfriend in my life so I still haven't had my first kiss. Nobody can tell that I'm a sad person by the way I act but I'm really lonely on the inside.
SilkLeaves Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 Can I ask - how old are you? Just try - even though you may not feel like it - to act confident with yourself. This will attract both friends and potential girlfriends. If you are young then it may be that your face grows into the features that you don't like. If you look at teenage pictures of some of the hottest celebrity males, you'll be suprised - a lot of them look extremely goofy. I would imagine that the sweeling in your nose will go down eventually. Maybe you could look up ways of helping the swelling go? Also, if your teeth bother you, it may be possible to get the gap filled - I think it's a fairly simple process, if it's just the one gap you want to fill. But before you make drastic changes to yourself make sure you're doing it for you, not other people. If you find the right people to hang around with, they should see your face as a part of you, and should know that your personality will shine through anything.
beautifulearth83 Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 Hey there. You're feeling inadequate and most people have probably felt that way one way or another. I've seen and met people of all different shapes and sizes and forms that were just absolutely amazing people. As cliche as it sounds, it really is what's on the inside that counts. You're not with a girl because you're not allowing yourself to be. It's not your nose or you teeth or your shoes. All you really have to do is follow your interests, embrace what is important(health, family, friends), and when all of those basic things put a smile on your face, your happiness will depend a lot less on the perceptions of others and whether or not you have a girl, though you probably will by then anyway. So just get out there, get to know yourself, be confident and do what makes you happy. And when you do that, perhaps you could make others happy at the same time...then it's just a cycle of happiness and awesomeness. Go get it. Give it and get it. Hope that helps, BE
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