thirtythree Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Ever since it's been over --- I HATE FRIDAY EVENING --- no matter what my plans are, I feel sad on Fridays.... Work week Mon-Fri distraction halts, memories flood back....ugh. Am I alone on this one?
Jilly Bean Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Not at all! Since my ex and I split, I found I HATED the weekends at first. It just magnified the breakup, because I would just remember where I was the week prior (with him). If you don't have an opportunity to go out with friends, then make it a ME night - give yourself a facial, deep condition your hair, watch a movie, pick up great take-out... Part of the recovery is rediscovering yourself as a single person.
megapositive Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Nope, you're not alone! I feel exactly the same way. And it makes you wonder a little what the exes are up to, who are they with, all that. Big bummer.
northstar1 Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Ever since it's been over --- I HATE FRIDAY EVENING --- no matter what my plans are, I feel sad on Fridays.... Work week Mon-Fri distraction halts, memories flood back....ugh. Am I alone on this one? Right there with ya.
CherishG Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 I totally 110% agree. I start to dread Fridays and the whole wknd in general on Thursday night. It's the worst feeling knowing that they are out there with whomever they might be with and there's nothing you can do to stop it. The loneliness and the memories just come flooding back in on Friday evenings...
SweetTux Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 I think a lot of us are in the same boat haha.. Well until you are over it and don't care what they are doing or who they are with. But that takes a while... Hopefully we all get to that point.
dilly Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Yup. This morning really sucked for me plus to compound it I get a text from the ex wishing me well. I always planned a nice weekend and we would go out of town. Ah well, I'm staying in this weekend.
EmperorR Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 same and i hate the weekend now cuz im home before anyone says go out etc. im like 800 in debt i won't be going anywhere for a while. I just hate being home alone.
wayfaerer1 Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 Right there with you guys... I dread the weekend, because god knows what the hell my ex is doing, and that's enough to drive you mad. Just gotta be around other people and have some fun. Forget about the ex - it's you time now.
Intergalactic Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 same and i hate the weekend now cuz im home before anyone says go out etc. im like 800 in debt i won't be going anywhere for a while. I just hate being home alone. lol, try 12k in debt. anyway, i also hate friday nights, and saturday nights, and every other night of the week because sometimes he would randomly show up with steak fried rice and a movie and his beautiful smile and now that won't happen anymore. kill me now.
Konfuzion Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 Shoot I wish it was just Fridays for me, I get sad every morning cause thats when I normally see my ex. And shes always on the phone talking to some other guy.
Author thirtythree Posted September 20, 2008 Author Posted September 20, 2008 Well thankfully it's now Saturday morning -- ok, make that Saturday afternoon. Watched a couple movies last night, went to bed, and woke up feeling fairly crusty. This is crazy.
EmperorR Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 id always see her on friday, i hate weekends cuz im just sitting home all day doing nothing which means im thinkin of her
SexinmyCity Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 I felt sad last night too...so I went to dinner and a movie with my daughter (she's 12)... I felt a little bit guilty because she usually goes to youth group on Friday nights. But I broke up with my ex about two months ago, and for some reason I had a twinge of missing him last night. I just knew I would end up in the dumps if I didn't do something, so I took my daughter on a date night.
wayfaerer1 Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 I went over a buddies house and we played some cover songs in his garage (i play guitar). It was a lot of fun and for some reason cranking up my guitar really loud for all to hear and playing my heart out seemed to make me feel a little better about myself.
sacg Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 Me too. Weekends are a real hard one. I actually know she's happy with another man, so I know theyre out together doing all the things we once did, and then going home and being intimate. She's staying over his flat and starting all over. Can you imagine, after 7 years, shes shacked up within weeks. Its a real killer. but i think it's slowly getting more acceptable.
ahhhchooo Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 Weekends blow. At least at work I have people I talk to. At home I'm just all alone. Probably rent 'Swingers' tonight for the 100th time. Can't wait for tomorrow, Monday to Friday is such a distraction. Fortunately it's nearly summer here and I live very close to the beach. Getting back into exercise and the gym, I am going to make myself so freakin' sexy this summer and find a girl that looks even better than her and even more uninhibited in the bedroom. Mmm... dreams.
wayfaerer1 Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 For some reason, watching The Big Lebowski just makes things all better, temporarily of course.
Ingenue Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 I'm the same way, Friday evenings are utterly unappealing. Actually, nights in general are hard for me as that's when I'd usually spend time with my ex, every night for the past 5 something years. Blah.
CherishG Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 so true ingenue. The nights really hit my heart deep down inside, like a sharp stabbing pain. You lie there... alone with only thoughts of where he/she is... who he is with... and the worst part, what is he doing with that other person. Every day when the sun goes down, and I know night fall fastly approaches, the sadness of not being able to share "my day" with him anymore just really kills me.
Intergalactic Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 went on facebook and saw some pics from the warriors game he went to. he looked so happy and i felt so miserable that i wasn't there. put me in a **** mood all ****ing day today. but at least it's sunday, and i've pushed myself through another week of this ****. doesn't help that i have NO desire to go out and drink and be "happy" with my friends so i sit at home and watch movies on my own or with the parents. my social life has gone down the ****ter. i don't even want to think about new years, since it was going to be the first i actually spent with him.
ahhhchooo Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 went on facebook and saw some pics from the warriors game he went to. he looked so happy and i felt so miserable that i wasn't there. put me in a **** mood all ****ing day today. but at least it's sunday, and i've pushed myself through another week of this ****. doesn't help that i have NO desire to go out and drink and be "happy" with my friends so i sit at home and watch movies on my own or with the parents. my social life has gone down the ****ter. i don't even want to think about new years, since it was going to be the first i actually spent with him. Oh trust me, I watched that game and if there was a photo of me I would've looked "so happy". Don't assume he's happy and don't even worry about it
9Lives Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 Paying the ex alot of attentions is going to keep you miserable. I personally dont want to know what he is doing. It will be like asking for a tooth ache, head ache, heart ache. I dont want to know anything.
Author thirtythree Posted September 21, 2008 Author Posted September 21, 2008 Well friends - it's almost Monday. Let's all vow to pre-plan and do something (anything) to make next weekend better.
wayfaerer1 Posted September 21, 2008 Posted September 21, 2008 Yeah, I feel just as much pain as the rest of you, but I would seriously consider avoiding facebook/myspace, or whatever thing would allow you too see what your ex is up to. It's hard enough dealing with the break up, don't make it worse. Believe me, and many others will tell you this as well - you're not prepared to know about what your ex is doing. It could be nothing, it could be something with a girl/guy, but think about it this way... Do you really think if you know what your ex is up to that that is going to change anything? Just block them out completely, I'm actually feeling better, its been 3 weeks since we broke up now. I think I'm entering the angry stage, a bit earlier than I thought. Up until a couple days ago, I was thinking, "Why oh why?! I want her back, why did she hurt me so much?!" Now I'm thinking, "What a b****, I treated her like a queen and she decides to trample on my heart and betray me, **** her, I'm going to find someone who actually gives a crap about me." Anyway, start to a new week guys - let's stay positive.
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