Simplycaroline Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 He told me that he loves me but we can not stay together. He says that I have a beautiful mind and that I am actually the perfect woman but he can not love me the way that I deserve. We had problems with sex because he has problems maintaining an erection. I was his dream girl with the dream body type that he always wanted. We are living together and I can't afford to go any place else. We had so many dreams and actually I did the work to bring much of what we have accomplished into fruition. He is 72 and still believes that love is a feeling...He also has difficulty facing he cold hard fact that his physical age has a bearing on his struggle with erection problem..He hates viewing himself as getting older even though he is a marvel to me and perfectly fit.
SarahRose Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 Sorry to hear about your situation. Where did you live before you moved in with him? If he wants you to go, he should help you move financially a little. As for his erection problem, he is 72 years old and most likely has ED. He is probably embarrassed about it and is blaming you instead of facing up to the truth and seeking medical help for it. Don't let him place that on you.
Author Simplycaroline Posted September 18, 2008 Author Posted September 18, 2008 Sorry to hear about your situation. Where did you live before you moved in with him? If he wants you to go, he should help you move financially a little. As for his erection problem, he is 72 years old and most likely has ED. He is probably embarrassed about it and is blaming you instead of facing up to the truth and seeking medical help for it. Don't let him place that on you. Thanks for your kind words. I take only responsibility for what I know is mine. What is his I leave squarly at his feet to do with what he desires. I have spoken to him about ED but he has a hard time facing it. It started even before he met me.
baby-boo Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 thats a sad story. Im sure he really loves you, but feels inadequite. I dont really know how to help in this situation. all i can think is to try and show him that you love him unconditionally. if this doesnt work, then i guess you have to respect his descision x x
Author Simplycaroline Posted September 18, 2008 Author Posted September 18, 2008 thats a sad story. Im sure he really loves you, but feels inadequite. I dont really know how to help in this situation. all i can think is to try and show him that you love him unconditionally. if this doesnt work, then i guess you have to respect his descision x x Thank you and I am doing just that. Not because I want him to change his mind but because I want him to be happy even if it is without me. My love for him is absolute. This has not been easy but it gives me peace of mind to do it this way. Thanks again for your wisdom.
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