Bewitched Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 Some friends of mine introduced me to a lady friend of theirs (I thought, later I learned differently). At the time, I was not in a relationship, nor was i seriously looking for one. I was content with my life. We had a drink, listened to music, and talked. She initiated hand holding, and I asked for her number. She gave me a (small) kiss when I left. There were 2 arranged meetings, (with friends), with the same outcome, hand holding, me walking her to her car, she giving me a kiss. Our first "real date" (she defined a "real date" as when I actually came to her house and picked her up). We went to a club, had dinner, there was a live band, and the friends who introduced us were there. I wanted her to be comfortable. The only thing extraordinary about the date, was a call on her cell phone. She went outside because of the noise. She had tears in her eyes when she returned. She told me it was from her daughter. I later learned it was from boyfriend she has neglected to tell the me about. I took her home, walked her to the door, and gave her a (small) kiss. After that, whenever I called she was busy, sick, or working early the next day. I may be dense, but after the 3rd. time, I told her that when she was ready to go out again, to let me know. It is not the fact that she did not want to go out again, I have been through that multiple times in the past. It was the way she did it. It was as if I had no value as a human being, and did not deserve a "dude, you and I are not working out, and we both need to move on". Injured pride more than anything else. Thanks for allowing me to vent. It helps to share with others who may have been through the same thing.
jerbear Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 I know what you mean. We can get through this.
Amy22 Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 I think you should feel lucky right now. She had a boyfriend that she didn't tell you about? You are better off with someone who won't hide things like that from you and then lie about who she was talking to. In my opinion by her kissing you whether it was a small kiss or not and going on a date while having a boyfriend, she is cheating on her boyfriend. Do you want to be with someone like that?
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