cheezy100 Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 From previous posts, I haven't kissed the guy that I'm dating for about a month now. The past 2 weeks he's been telling me "you need to kiss me still." Yesterday, he REALLY wanted me to kiss him, but he kept asking me or reminding me that I need to kiss him. He ruined the moment by asking, and I just couldn't do it. I felt like I was gonna laugh when our lips touch. It's not like I didn't want to kiss him, it's just that him asking or saying "you need to kiss me" just ruins the atomosphere and the moment. Then he saw my thinks-he's-a-weirdo expression, and he was like "aww...~" When we got out of the car, he said "you're playing hard to get. (with a smile) I like challenges (smirk smile)." I did ask him "do you normally ask for a kiss when with a girl? Your definitely the first guy that ever asked me for a kiss. You totally made it an awkward atmosphere!" I mean, i'd rather him not remind me to kiss him, and just kiss me without asking....that would be a lot better. Yet again, I've never made the first move to kiss a guy before. Should I make him my first and see what happens? ^_^ Do you think I'm playing hard to get?
High Plains Drifter Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 OK. How old are you? Is there a "below age of consent" forum here?
Author cheezy100 Posted September 17, 2008 Author Posted September 17, 2008 OK. How old are you? Is there a "below age of consent" forum here? I'm 22 and he's 26. but i'm like GREEN with dating...he's been around so he's more open to dating/relationships.
norajane Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 He should have just kissed you instead of talking about it. It's a freakin' kiss, what's to discuss? No, you aren't playing hard to get - you said you would have kissed him if he hadn't killed the mood by pretending to be all alpha dominant and telling you that you need to kiss him. This is where guys who aren't actually alpha, dominant, or even socially graceful go so very wrong - they act like they think alpha guys act and screw it all up. If he'd have shut up and kissed you, there would be no issue now. If you kiss him now, he's going to think he's "got" you, and, y'know, the 'challenge' he supposedly likes will be lost. No win situation. You have to wait for him to do it.
Dirk Diggler Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 I'm 22 and he's 26. but i'm like GREEN with dating...he's been around so he's more open to dating/relationships. Just relax, and give him the green light to take action without having to say so with words. Unless he's extremely dim. He'll see the light and just go in for a kiss.
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