one goal Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 I was wondering, I go to community college going to be 25 soon what is the best way to pickup girls? All 3 of my classes have a few hot girls in each one!! Like my first class one sits next to me. I don't talk to her alot though but think shes cute. I was wondering how do I get to know them better? Also my second class a really good looking girl sits infront of the room. I never talked to her before so she basically doesn't even know me. Like How do I approach them and just ask them out? is that creepy to just ask them out without ever talking to em before? Should I tell them I think they're cute?
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 1. Don't talk to them about Katherine McPhee
bish Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 I was wondering, I go to community college going to be 25 soon what is the best way to pickup girls? Don't be a nice and considerate guy that is for sure. Girls go for the cocky, arrogant, "my sh#t don't stink" player type of guys. so be an a##hole. You'll be amazed how many girls throw themselves at you thinking you are simply "confident".
Author one goal Posted September 17, 2008 Author Posted September 17, 2008 Don't be a nice and considerate guy that is for sure. Girls go for the cocky, arrogant, "my sh#t don't stink" player type of guys. so be an a##hole. You'll be amazed how many girls throw themselves at you thinking you are simply "confident". How do I talk to them though? One girl I like her dad is a cop though.
Milkflavor123 Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 OK. stop with the whole being an A**hole thing. because if its not you, then your going to have to put yourself in that situation most of the time,by being rude. Yes Women flock to d**k heads but, they also are the ones we end up crying over and hating. And wishing we would have ended up with the nice guy. But do Be Confident- Do not ask them out the first time you speak. But try and talk to them. If they start up a conversation with you, and continuosly do it. then they are most likely interested. pay attention to body language. Her arms will be more open while in conversation. She will smile a ton more. And possibly ask you questions about yourself. if something along these lines do not end up happening. its most likely because she is not that ienterested. Dont let this get you down. But dont keep looking for the next girl to talk with. Most love comes out of nowhere-
Milkflavor123 Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 BISH- we do fall for guys like that. but we also are not going to fall for someone pretending to be like that. really. a guy just needs to be confident. thats it. I actually am very unattracted to males who "think their sh** dont stink..." cause I'll tell you. it does. everyone's does.
Dirk Diggler Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 1. Don't talk to them about Katherine McPhee Have you actually had a guy working the McPhee approach into breaking the ice with you!? I'm curious, did it work out!?
bish Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 How do I talk to them though? One girl I like her dad is a cop though. You'd have to ask a player. I am not one, maybe thats my problem.
bish Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 OK. stop with the whole being an A**hole thing. because if its not you, then your going to have to put yourself in that situation most of the time,by being rude. Yes Women flock to d**k heads but, they also are the ones we end up crying over and hating. And wishing we would have ended up with the nice guy. But then as nice guys, we know you are only "settling" for us and really wishing you were with a bad boy. Thats why as we get older, us nice guys have to be selective. don't just fall for any woman because she has had her fill of bad boys. If you know a woman use to fall all over bad boys, be VERY leary of them my fellow brethren.
bish Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 BISH- we do fall for guys like that. but we also are not going to fall for someone pretending to be like that. So what you are saying is you fall for the genuine *******s? Geez...the nice guys just can't win. really. a guy just needs to be confident. Not much difference between confident, and plain old arrogant and cocky. I actually am very unattracted to males who "think their sh** dont stink..." Yet you say you fall for them?? Am I missing something here?
bish Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 Be yourself. Get them to laugh All kidding aside, this is the way to go. But if you are yourself and talk to them like human beings and they still go for the bad boys, then fek em. They'll get what they deserve.
Green Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 You sound clueless... Do you know any guys who are good with women... I'm not talking about your friend who's had the same gf for the past couple years... I'm talking about a guy who is smooth with women. If you have a friend like that ask for his help, its to hard for us to coach you over the net. The best advice is be ultra confident, just go up and talk to them, be yourself that means talking to them about going out being funny trying to kiss them.
Author one goal Posted September 18, 2008 Author Posted September 18, 2008 You sound clueless... Do you know any guys who are good with women... I'm not talking about your friend who's had the same gf for the past couple years... I'm talking about a guy who is smooth with women. If you have a friend like that ask for his help, its to hard for us to coach you over the net. The best advice is be ultra confident, just go up and talk to them, be yourself that means talking to them about going out being funny trying to kiss them. So I should just go up to them, tell them my name, and ask them out?
Green Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 So I should just go up to them, tell them my name, and ask them out? Sure but ask em out in a way that it won't be so awkward. Like "hey hows it going" then talk to them about something cool and then ask them if they want to come over and watch movies.... then make out. And oh yeah be yourself... what ever comes to mind. Don't try to be a fake guy who is pertending he just wants to be friends... tell them they are cute and stuff... oh yeah and hit on alot of them all at once that way your not so dependant on the out come... and hmmm get in on the college party scene thats the best place to get girls... they get horny when they drink... at a minimum they get flashy and easy to touch
Author one goal Posted September 18, 2008 Author Posted September 18, 2008 I was staring at her, checking her out alot in class again today. Hard to stay focused. I still don't know how to talk to her since I don't know her. SHes hot, I want her!!
IrishCarBomb Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 I was staring at her, checking her out alot in class again today. Hard to stay focused. I still don't know how to talk to her since I don't know her. SHes hot, I want her!! Girls love attention, so just stare at her without ever blinking. Once you've got that part down, start talking to yourself and occasionally biting your lips and fingers. Be sure to twitch a lot, they love "active" guys, not those LOSERS that just sit there all calm and lame!
bish Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 I was staring at her, checking her out alot in class again today. Hard to stay focused. I still don't know how to talk to her since I don't know her. SHes hot, I want her!! Thats the problem. Now you are a guy that wants her. You aren't a challenge for her. If she knows you are staring at her, she'll think you are like a loyal puppy dog. Its when the guy acts as if he could take her or leave her that they get intruiged. If you act like you really like her, you may get her, but you won't keep her. Women seem to fall all over the guy that acts like he can live without them.
Author one goal Posted September 18, 2008 Author Posted September 18, 2008 Likeif I just walked up introduced myself and told her she's cute would she think I'm a pervert, or just trying to get in her pants.
bish Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 Likeif I just walked up introduced myself and told her she's cute would she think I'm a pervert, or just trying to get in her pants. How old are you again?
Author one goal Posted September 18, 2008 Author Posted September 18, 2008 How old are you again? 25 next month
bish Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 25 next month 25?? I take it you haven't really had many dates then. No offense, but you are talking like you just got your license.
Green Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 25?? I take it you haven't really had many dates then. No offense, but you are talking like you just got your license. every time some one says no offense they go ahead and say something that can only be taken offenseivly
bish Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 every time some one says no offense they go ahead and say something that can only be taken offenseivly when telling the truth, people dont mean to offend, but the truth itself can offend. Thats why people say it.
nopainnogain Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 every time some one says no offense they go ahead and say something that can only be taken offenseivly Or start off a sentence "in all due respect " followed by a bunch of $hit talking. And end it with a "jmo"
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