Quiet Pro Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Many on this website have already seen the thread below of my planned actions. I am doing this to not only bring justice to the OM. But, by doing so, I am going to be shaming my wife. His son and my daughter are in the same 1st Grade class. I hold now ill will for his wife. But she will be the one to bring down the hammer on these two. If I become confrontational, I am just another angry veteran. Patience is a virtue. Revenge will be mine. And it is all legal. Once this all falls apart, I will see what happens in the end.
whichwayisup Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Try not to let this explode because of the kids. Honestly? It would be better to just divorce, serve her with papers, call the OM's wife and let her know about her husband being with your wife - And then protect your child. Your kid NEEDS a stable parent right now because your daughter's life is about to be turned upside down and she's going to need love, support and feel secure. Don't lose focus of that!
Owl Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Many on this website have already seen the thread below of my planned actions. I am doing this to not only bring justice to the OM. But, by doing so, I am going to be shaming my wife. His son and my daughter are in the same 1st Grade class. I hold now ill will for his wife. But she will be the one to bring down the hammer on these two. If I become confrontational, I am just another angry veteran. Patience is a virtue. Revenge will be mine. And it is all legal. Once this all falls apart, I will see what happens in the end. What's the POINT??? Do you want revenge, or do you want to try to recover your marriage and your family??? The two are mutually exclusive.
ThumbingMyWay Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 I am doing this to not only bring justice to the OM. But, by doing so, I am going to be shaming my wife. I posted what is below in your other thread, not sure which one you are updating, so I am posting it here as well. QP. What is your goal? in your first thread and post, you stated you wanted to save your marriage. Is that still your goal? Do you think your method of exposure (justice and shame) will help you achieve the goal of saving marriage? OR is the goal to expose, shame and make public, then divorce now? as WWIU said....think of the children and who they will be affected by said exposure method
theobserver Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 Do what you have to do. Try to make this as easy on your child, prepare her if you must. I don't think it's ever really possibly to shelter the kids in situations like this right now anything can happen can't shield them from anything. Tell you what ridicule over not having the latest trainers is worse then parents going through a soon to be messy divorce most kids could care less 6+ (not up to debate just my opinion). Unless you have her in a private school where it might be frowned upon.
bish Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 Many on this website have already seen the thread below of my planned actions. I am doing this to not only bring justice to the OM. But, by doing so, I am going to be shaming my wife. His son and my daughter are in the same 1st Grade class. I hold now ill will for his wife. But she will be the one to bring down the hammer on these two. If I become confrontational, I am just another angry veteran. Patience is a virtue. Revenge will be mine. And it is all legal. Once this all falls apart, I will see what happens in the end. Well keep us posted!!
bish Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 Try not to let this explode because of the kids. Honestly? It would be better to just divorce, serve her with papers, call the OM's wife and let her know about her husband being with your wife - And then protect your child. Your kid NEEDS a stable parent right now because your daughter's life is about to be turned upside down and she's going to need love, support and feel secure. Don't lose focus of that! EXACTLY RIGHT!! Divorce her, inform the OM's wife and protect the kids. And exactly right again, the kids need a stable parent right now and obviously that isn't their mother.
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