Mr Chitwood Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 So i'm single, 19 and i'm a virgin. I have my own home and i work full time as a shipping manager. I have soo soo soooo many problems with girls. I've olny had one girlfriend and we olny dated for a few months, i'll put it this way we olny kissed a few times. I don't know whats up with me and or what i need to do to have girls intersted in me... I'm about 6 ft 250 lbs kinda chubby well i have a belly but i gots some muscle short brown hair big blue eyes and a baby face. Girls tell me that I am a great guy??? I don't get that. I'm really nice most of the time but if i don't like you I let it show. I dont mind paying when it comes to most girls I'm a sucker and a push over. I'm tired of being the friend!!!!! Can some one please help me out in whatever way you can. Ask me questions i'll gladly tell what you want to know bout me.
dcgirl33 Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 The "if i don;t like you I let it show." comes off as girlish. Stop that. It may actually be that you are moody and girls don't like it or definently don''t want to sleep with it.
Author Mr Chitwood Posted September 17, 2008 Author Posted September 17, 2008 Thats deff understandable. When I first meet a girl so i'm told they think im the biggest *******. I'm guessing this is because they don't know me well enough to know that I'm vary sarcastic and I have a dickish sence of humor. After getting to know me they say I'm the sweetest guy in the world. I'm not gay by anymeans, but gay girls that dont like me seem to talk **** about me being a homo? I feel that being the "manly man" as in Sticking to your word, not giving in, and being the ruler my way or the high way kinda thing is hard for me for some reason. I have trouble using these roles at the right time.
vertigocidic Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Hmmm. You sound sweet, but you did just say you have a sarcastic, "dickish" sense of humor. Stop that. It's immature. Be confident. Be assertive. DON'T be a pushover! God, I hate that in men! But at the same time be fair and sweet, cause I'm sure you are a very sweet guy... Then again, the "sweet guy" usually plays the "male best friend" of many females. I say, if they need your help, go ahead and help them. Instead of mooching over your female friends, go out on dates with new girls and show them what you got. Be interesting. Challenge them a little. Girls love this; We really hate being with someone who either agrees with us with a cheesy smile, or disagree with us entirely. It's just awkward.
Author Mr Chitwood Posted September 18, 2008 Author Posted September 18, 2008 Thanks lol. Can you give me a few ways you think would be the best to meet new people. I live in Birmingham, AL so theres a good bit to do??
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