vince1128 Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 hey everybody, I'm a senior in hs and wondering if I should b tryin to get as much as I can or not. I have no problem with head or anythin like that but now I'm in a situation where a couple girls want to have sex with me (not whores either) but Im not sure if I want to or not. My reasoning is I've had sex with one person and unfortunately wasn't her first but now I feel like I'm passed the first I can go get as much as I can but now faced with that situation I'm wondering if that's really what I want. I think it's all mental, having to do with my "number" and I don't want the times I have sex at this age to b meaningless but at the same time why the hell do I have that logic in my head. The only reason I'm not is I guess not wanting to raise my "number" with meaningless girls but should I even b worried about this. I could have a fun year but not sure if I would regret it later. If anyone understands my weird logic please give me ur opinions. Thanks
rod_in_gtown Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Have fun, don't lie to the girls, and don't get anyone pregnant or get an STD. wear a rubber. You've got a long way to go so you don't need to get serious about anyone just yet.
Jilly Bean Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 If you are questioning getting laid this much, then take that as sign to NOT do it. Ironically, while you pausing to wonder if this is what you want is very emotionally mature of you, yet the fact that you question it, shows me that you are not emotionally mature enough to handle it. Play sports, hang out with your friends, date the girls, but DONT feel any kind of need or pressure to up your magic number. There is PLENTY of time for women when you feel more ready for it. P.S. I was a virgin until college, ONLY because I knew I wouldn't be able to handle the emotions from having sex in HS, and I have NO regrets, and have certainly well made up for that time.
Author vince1128 Posted September 17, 2008 Author Posted September 17, 2008 Have fun, don't lie to the girls, and don't get anyone pregnant or get an STD. wear a rubber. You've got a long way to go so you don't need to get serious about anyone just yet. I didn't necessarily mean serious, just someone who I could remember more about then just there name 6 months later. Good advice though!
Tyra Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 If you are questioning getting laid this much, then take that as sign to NOT do it. I truly agree. You need to just wait to have sex, and stop focusing so much on the need to hurry up and have sex. But if you do have sex with these females, make sure that you wear protection, because having STD's isn't worth it at all.
rod_in_gtown Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 P.S. I was a virgin until college Ditto, was a virgin until age 20 (or 21, not really sure) Still remember my first time and it was not memorable. Def making up for it as often as I can
Author vince1128 Posted September 17, 2008 Author Posted September 17, 2008 If you are questioning getting laid this much, then take that as sign to NOT do it. Ironically, while you pausing to wonder if this is what you want is very emotionally mature of you, yet the fact that you question it, shows me that you are not emotionally mature enough to handle it. Play sports, hang out with your friends, date the girls, but DONT feel any kind of need or pressure to up your magic number. There is PLENTY of time for women when you feel more ready for it. P.S. I was a virgin until college, ONLY because I knew I wouldn't be able to handle the emotions from having sex in HS, and I have NO regrets, and have certainly well made up for that time. Great advice, this is true. On a larger scale I'm wondering if I should even have to think of it as rushing into it. I realize sex is something "sacred" but maybe I don't. Why can't it just be something as regular as a blowjob?, why should I have to worry about it? If it's fun why not do it safely with no regrets? I guess it's the point about emotional maturity and though I saidthat maybe I'll feel like it is a bigger deal afterwards?
Author vince1128 Posted September 17, 2008 Author Posted September 17, 2008 If you are questioning getting laid this much, then take that as sign to NOT do it. I truly agree. You need to just wait to have sex, and stop focusing so much on the need to hurry up and have sex. But if you do have sex with these females, make sure that you wear protection, because having STD's isn't worth it at all. the part I have a hard time agreeing with is about hurrying into it? Why can't it just be a fun activity and not something Im hurrying into. I'm very open minded but i'm just having a hard time understanding why it's such a big deal I guess
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