Attack of the Exes

[amymarieca]

Hello everyone. I know that this is going to sound strange, but I have had not one, but TWO of my exes in the last few weeks come crawling back to me.

 

I never date ex boyfriends because there is a reason why the relationship ended in the first place. I am just wondering though, why do people try and get back together with you after they knew it didn't work out? It is almost insulting in a way because both of these men broke my heart pretty bad, and they seem to have it in their mind that I would actually want to give them a second chance.

 

I don't think that I am a horrible person to date, but I can't help but think to myself "Am I just the second best girl?" Are these men just coming back to me because they realize they can't do any better, or am I just that fabulous? Has this happened to anyone else?

[Tyra]

Well, it could be several reasons why these guys want to get back with you. They may have realize that they lost a good thing, and want to give it a second shot. He want to try to fix what he messed up. Or,they probably can't find anyone that's good as you.

[Trialbyfire]

Take it as "just that fabulous" and don't worry about the negative aspect of it. They do come back but the good news is that you're not forced to take them back!

[jen's mind]

I know that this is going to sound strange, but I have had not one, but TWO of my exes in the last few weeks come crawling back to me.

 

I don't think that I am a horrible person to date, but I can't help but think to myself "Am I just the second best girl?" Are these men just coming back to me because they realize they can't do any better, or am I just that fabulous?

 

That is strange; I would be questioning the significance, too. There's no need to question/doubt yourself, though. I would just find the timing interesting and wonder what lesson the universe is trying to get across.

 

Perhaps it is that you ARE just that fabulous! Get used to it.