davidjor Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 well my ex and i broke up a while ago, back in march. From december - march our relationship was very rocky to say the least. Every couple days she contacts me well last time was this past Friday, and we got into it. I told her again for the 100th time i do not want to remain friends because it is hard for me move forward with my life without her. Anyway, this morning she instant messaged me and asked if i wanted to see her (she is still in Panama) I am that back in the states. I lived in Panama for two years thats how i meet her. anyway we just had the following conversation: Her: Hi, How are you doing? Me: I am fine, oh I do not think i will be seeing you in October or November Her: Why Me: You just o not get it do you? Her: Nope, I guess I am a dummy Me: Do you expect me to sit around and wait for you to decide what you want? Her: YES Me: ummm, no I am not going to sit around and wait for you Her: ok Then I logged out of messenger... WTF, IS THIS ABOUT. DOES SHE ACTUALLY THINK I AM GOING TO SIT AROUND AND WAIT FOR HER? SHOULD I TELL HER I AM DELETING HER, AND BLOCKING HER IM MESSAGES AND E-MAIL OR SHOULD I JUST DO IT? HELP ME PLEASE !! I said when, she said October or November. My reply was "I don't know, I wont be seeing her in October or November" sh
used2bspunky Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Me: Do you expect me to sit around and wait for you to decide what you want? Her: YES Me: ummm, no I am not going to sit around and wait for you Her: ok Then I logged out of messenger... WTF, IS THIS ABOUT. DOES SHE ACTUALLY THINK I AM GOING TO SIT AROUND AND WAIT FOR HER? Hi David.. well, I'd have to say that her IM was pretty clear, wasn't it? And she answered your question: She expects you to sit around and wait for her. I am not a big fan of game playing.. I know how hard it is, too, to be friends with someone you care about so much more. As hard as it is, you may need to just let her be - and go that NC route. She isn't being very fair and sounds a bit selfish.
kizik Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 What's up hombre, I think you should simply go no contact with her. As used2 said, she sounds really immature and, frankly, stupid. Don't play her games. Ignore her! You are un chico bueno, and you don't need her annoying a$$ in your life. PS. Tu ingles es eccelente
Deegee Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Ignore her, delete her messages, ignore her texts..... She obviously thinks you're a chump, and will be at her beck and call. Who do these people think they ARE?! Don't tell her, just do it. You don't owe her anything. This is about you now, NOT her. She sounds like someone who is used to getting what she wants pfffft, NOT ANYMORE. Be strong, you can do it!!!!!
Author davidjor Posted September 17, 2008 Author Posted September 17, 2008 well last night she IMed me again. I asked if she was serious about expecting me to wait around for her to decide. She said, no she was joking. She then asked If i want to see her. Told her not sure, what I am doing and when I would be back in Panama. Anyway, today she IMed me again.. I ignored it.
Lishy Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Why are you not blocking her? I think that deep down you want her to contact you! Be honest with yourself and work out what you really want!
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