manymaliboo Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Looking for any words of wisdom My STBXH sent an email wanting to meet to discuss splitting our assets before "we take our lists" to our separate lawyers. He wants each of us to make a list of how to divide items and then we can go over each others list. I suggested he show me his list and we could go from there, but that isn't acceptable. He has items, as he moved out a few months ago and has furnished a duplex. Our house isn't currently worth much. Most of the equity is gone due to the housing market. He suggested a month ago or so if I wanted to keep the house, he would keep his 401K, because the amount of equity would be equal. After I had an appraisal done by a local realtor, seems that isn't going to work Worried about meeting, as he is good at twisting everything around and I am somehow always at fault. Any words of advice would be appreciated.
Author manymaliboo Posted September 18, 2008 Author Posted September 18, 2008 Meeting went ok. Seems like we can figure out the kids. Most of the items we can split and agree on. Not money. What is up with wanting sex. Spent an hour going through this and now late tonight I keep getting txt from him wanting to come over. We were just splitting up our stuff. I don't get it.
Nemo Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 What is up with wanting sex. Spent an hour going through this and now late tonight I keep getting txt from him wanting to come over. We were just splitting up our stuff. I don't get it. If you can get an extra injection of liquidity, then it's best not to argue.
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