giner8681 Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Me and my ex started hanging out after 10 month of absolutely no contact. Its been really good and we've really been having a lot of fun together and helping each other out with things like car problems and dog sitting. I have to admit that its nice to have him back in my life, but also I have to stress that we are not getting back together. Its just not practical right now because he is leaving for 2 years in a few months. He is in the military. So, I've been playing it cool. But sometimes I get the feeling that he does want to get back together. Evey time I see him he gives me big hugs, nuzzles my neck, and smells my hair. He stares into my eyes just long enough to make me look away. He calls, emails and texts everyday. I just feel like its a bit more than just the friends thing. Am I wrong? The other day we were talking and he says to me that a friend of his told him that I was the best match for him. I kinda just was like oh wow, haha, but why would he tell me this? I'm really confused. Maybe he is just as confused as me or maybe this is just how he is. Although in all the time that I had known him he was never one to hang out with girls. Maybe I'm looking for something to be there? I would love some insight. I'm trying to keep it cool as friends, but things like that get me thinking. Thanks!
Intergalactic Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 honestly, if he's leaving for 2 years in a few months anyway, i would just not think about it. too much grief, and 2 years of not seeing someone can change how you feel A LOT. my advice is to just keep it low-key, friendly and have fun with him, but not consider getting back together (even if that IS what he wants) because there just doesn't seem a lot of point. also, he might just be re-learning the familiar, it's been 10 months of not seeing or speaking to you so all those things he does might just be something he's doing because it's familiar but new at the same time. everyone loves the familiar.
Author giner8681 Posted September 17, 2008 Author Posted September 17, 2008 Thanks for the response. I guess I could see how it might be familar for him to fall into some the same patterns. We never did break up because we didn't love eachother. And I think that we will always care about the other. But, I'm going to take your advise and keep it strictly as friends. I think that for now that is the best thing to do, espcically with him leaving for 2 years. Not that he has brought up getting back together anyway. My wheels are just spinning!
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