NewKid99 Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Hi all.. I have been dating this woman for about 2 months. Things have been great so far. In fact, I don't think we've had a bad time together in the past 2 months. Now, the one thing that was never brought up is anything about an exclusive relationship. Further, I do not know if she is seeing anyone else. In the past, I have never brought this up - it always came from the woman. Thing is - if I find out she is seeing someone else, I'm out. I will never talk to her again, as I think its a sign of disrespect on her part - since we've been sexually active. What should I do?
dcgirl33 Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Ask her and you would be absolutely right in your response.
gummybear Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Hi all.. I have been dating this woman for about 2 months. Things have been great so far. In fact, I don't think we've had a bad time together in the past 2 months. Now, the one thing that was never brought up is anything about an exclusive relationship. Further, I do not know if she is seeing anyone else. In the past, I have never brought this up - it always came from the woman. Thing is - if I find out she is seeing someone else, I'm out. I will never talk to her again, as I think its a sign of disrespect on her part - since we've been sexually active. What should I do? In my last 2 relationships, the man was who suggested to be exclusive. If she's traditional, then she's just waiting for you to make the move. So make the move!
Trialbyfire Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Isn't it better to know for certain, rather than avoiding the big white elephant in the room? If she's invested, she'll be flattered and happy that you're asking for exclusivity. If she still wants to maintain her freedom, isn't it better to know this upfront so you can find someone who wants to be in an exclusive relationship?
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