Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 I could put this in the sex forum, but it's more of a dating question as well I suppose. Just something I have been wondering about. It seems that men are more attracted or want to date women with big breasts. So how big is big? Like a C or a B? Sometimes I feel very self conscious because of my chest, so in my case I can't stand them. I called for a consultation and when I told them my bra size she thought I was totally nuts. So how does everyone feel about this subject? I know it's really personal, but I'm been doing research on breast lifts/breast reduction/breast inhancement. What are your dating preferences? Would you date someone with really big breasts? (but looked kind of funny in shirts). Advice/opinions?
Star Gazer Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Why do you care about what anyone other than what YOU, or your BF (the one you want to spend the rest of your life with) thinks about YOUR breasts? You'll find just as many guys that like little boobs as like big boobs. What matters is what YOU like and what YOU feel comfortable with. That said, to me a B-cup is NOT big. Jennifer Aniston is a B-cup. That's what I was before I got implants.
carhill Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 The size of the "girls" doesn't matter, to me anyway. How they move and express their interest does matter
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 Why do you care about what anyone other than what YOU, or your BF (the one you want to spend the rest of your life with) thinks about YOUR breasts? You'll find just as many guys that like little boobs as like big boobs. What matters is what YOU like and what YOU feel comfortable with. That said, to me a B-cup is NOT big. Jennifer Aniston is a B-cup. That's what I was before I got implants. Lol, that's the same thing my boyfriend said (that I shouldn't be caring about it). My chest has always bothered me, but I don't qualify for surgery, therefore I was seeing how others feel. You are probably right though, I need to listen to what my boyfreind says because he is really the only one who sees them.
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 The size of the "girls" doesn't matter, to me anyway. How they move and express their interest does matter That's a good answer. That's something to think about.
oceangrl Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 I think it depends on your frame. I'm a B cup too and for my frame I feel comfortable with it. I like my athletic small boobs.
Star Gazer Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Lol, that's the same thing my boyfriend said (that I shouldn't be caring about it). My chest has always bothered me, but I don't qualify for surgery, therefore I was seeing how others feel. You are probably right though, I need to listen to what my boyfreind says because he is really the only one who sees them. Well, the person you need to listen to foremost is YOURSELF. If YOU aren't comfortable, in the long run it doesn't matter what your BF thinks. He may make you more comfortable than you otherwise would be without him in your life, but in the end, you are the one who has to feel comfortable in your own skin. No one else. Do whatever feels right for you, whatever will make you feel better about yourself.
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 I think it depends on your frame. I'm a B cup too and for my frame I feel comfortable with it. I like my athletic small boobs. Yeah, that's sort of the exception I think. I'm very petite so I look odd and unproportioned (although I'm probably the only one who thinks that). People pay 1000's of dollars to have the boob size I do, I think I must be nuts.
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 Well, the person you need to listen to foremost is YOURSELF. If YOU aren't comfortable, in the long run it doesn't matter what your BF thinks. He may make you more comfortable than you otherwise would be without him in your life, but in the end, you are the one who has to feel comfortable in your own skin. No one else. Do whatever feels right for you, whatever will make you feel better about yourself. He does make me feel better about it. He always is telling "babe, women would KILL for your chest size! I hit the jackpot!" (he's funny) It's odd though, I've had guys who were turned OFF though, but I guess it does go back to preferences.
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 I love me some big titties. HAHAHA, oh my goodness
carhill Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Yeah, that's sort of the exception I think. I'm very petite so I look odd and unproportioned (although I'm probably the only one who thinks that). People pay 1000's of dollars to have the boob size I do, I think I must be nuts. Well, as an antithesis, my old female friend was built like you, generally hated men talking to her breasts and the opinions formed about her because of them, and had them substantially reduced in her late 20's. Didn't change how I felt about her at all. I just had more company looking into her eyes
Craiggy Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Like others have said, it's more important to me that the woman is comfortable with herself. But my personal preference is simply to natural breasts. I'd be more attracted to a woman with small natural breasts, than big fake ones (not that I can always tell ).
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 Well, as an antithesis, my old female friend was built like you, generally hated men talking to her breasts and the opinions formed about her because of them, and had them substantially reduced in her late 20's. Didn't change how I felt about her at all. I just had more company looking into her eyes Yeah, I sometimes can't wear some shirts because of it. I don't qualify for a reduction, because I'm not big enough. I look bigger because I'm petite though so it is so upsetting.
Star Gazer Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 He does make me feel better about it. He always is telling "babe, women would KILL for your chest size! I hit the jackpot!" (he's funny) It's odd though, I've had guys who were turned OFF though, but I guess it does go back to preferences. Precisely. Ya know what? Some guys prefer blondes. Some guys prefer brunettes. Some guys prefer tall, thin models. Some guys prefer petite, bootylicious gals with meat. Some guys like fair skin. Some guys like tan/dark skin. So who cares that THEY think? All that matters is how you feel in your own skin. If your personal preferance is something different than what you currently are/have, change it. Otherwise, who cares?
Ruby Slippers Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 I'm a C (have been since I was 17 or so), and while I have always gotten a lot of positive feedback about my boobs, sometimes I wish I had cute little ones so I could go bra-free (I can, but it attracts too much of a particular kind of attention!). I think a slender frame with large, fake breasts looks ridiculous, personally, while boobs appropriate to body size usually look great.
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 Like others have said, it's more important to me that the woman is comfortable with herself. But my personal preference is simply to natural breasts. I'd be more attracted to a woman with small natural breasts, than big fake ones (not that I can always tell ). That's the way my boyfriend feels as well. He likes C-cup women though, so I told him that he probably couldn't tell since that is the size a lot of women get implants.
Star Gazer Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Yeah, I sometimes can't wear some shirts because of it. Well, when it comes to boobs, the grass is always greener as far as clothes are concerned. Before implants, I didn't really fill anything out. I only went up a cup-size and a half, and now I have difficulty wearing certain tops (anything with buttons doesn't work! LOL).
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 Well, when it comes to boobs, the grass is always greener as far as clothes are concerned. Before implants, I didn't really fill anything out. I only went up a cup-size and a half, and now I have difficulty wearing certain tops (anything with buttons doesn't work! LOL). I will trade you!!!!
Star Gazer Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 I will trade you!!!! Don't we both have big boobs now?
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 Don't we both have big boobs now? Well before your implants is what I meant.
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 I can't get a reduction though, it sucks. I could lose like 15 pounds and shrink myself but I'd probably be too thin if I did that. (that's why the plastic surgeon said he wouldn't do it, because of weight fluctuation, esp. during pregnancy.) Insurance covers a reduction too!
Author Lauriebell82 Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 I'm a C (have been since I was 17 or so), and while I have always gotten a lot of positive feedback about my boobs, sometimes I wish I had cute little ones so I could go bra-free (I can, but it attracts too much of a particular kind of attention!). I think a slender frame with large, fake breasts looks ridiculous, personally, while boobs appropriate to body size usually look great. I wish I could go bra-free as well. Swim suits suck too, when I go in the water I pop out a little bit and have to adjust.
flc Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 C is my preference but this is not a make or break issue for me. Shape and aerola size actually gets me more excited, don't know why
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