fomerlyniceguy Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Ok, I need advice. Here is the back story, sorry if it seems long. I met a woman almost two years ago. I liked her but it didn't seem we were ready to be together yet. We were both dating around a lot, I even dated her best friend briefly. We ended up getting together almost 7 months ago now. Started dating exclusively, and things seemed good. Lately things have been weird. Seems we are talking less, spending less time together, etc. I have asked her about this many times. She always responds there is nothing wrong between us, she admitted the other day she feels like she feels like she is going through a mid life crisis, she doesn't feel like she is where she wants to be in life. She says it has nothing to do with us, but she seems depressed, although she still says she loves me. She doesn't want to talk about it, and says there are things she doesn't want to discuss with me. I know she has some money problems and is very proud, and does not like to appear weak. I love her and want to continue, but every time we start to discuss this she says I am making her issues into issues about us. It's making me insecure, and I am wondering if I am wrong to feel this way, am I being selfish? I sthis just a phase we are going through? Before Anybody brings it up, I have no reason to believe she is cheating.
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