evo5039 Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Just broke up last night. We've been dating for over a year. We go to different undergrads that are only 20 minutes away. She stated how she felt but I ultimately ended it. She said she's been overwhelmed with everything and that she doesn't "have" the time to devote to me(3 weeks into school mind you). Obviously I know this means "there are things I'd rather do". I brought up the issue of her being distant last night and this conversation ensued. Think maybe she was acting rashly? Or is it truly not going to work? Kept saying I'm still in love with you and that I still love you and miss you. That's all fine and great but unless I'm shown what you mean all those are are words.... Really sucks and I'm feeling pretty hurt but such is life right? This is the second serious relationship that I've had so I guess it gets easier to deal with this stuff. Would love some opinions from people. I'm prob gonna go No Contact just too heal and get over the situation..... This sucks.
Amy22 Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 I think going nc would be good to help you heal. I know how hard break ups can be. Sometimes it feels like your life is over. But I can tell you it does get better. Try to keep your head up. Posting here also helps when you are feeling down.
EmperorR Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Ya it sucks, im on week 2 and still crying every day
Amy22 Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 I feel for you emperorR. I have been there. I don't know how long you were with this person but it isn't unusual to still be crying on week 2. I promise it will get better. I know that sucks to here because you want to feel better now. Just know that it will come. I think going through break ups is on of the hardest things to deal with in life. Especially because you can't make it better. Know you are not alone and there are a lot of people on here that will support you and be there when you need someone to talk to. When I was going through my break up I would spend hours posting on here. Reading other peoples stories help. It made me feel better to respond to them and let them know they are not alone. Good Luck and I hope things start getting better for you soon.
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