Quiet Pro Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 This affair that my wife IS in has wrecked me. I got back from Iraq in late May. When I first had my suspicions in late May, I weighed around 242 lbs. I now weigh around 202. The reason I am trying to save my marriage is because we have 2 girls. And my wife has made me feel like this is all in my head. Even if the marriage doesn't work, I need to finally prove this to myself. The positive results from the Semen Detection Kit has given me initial proof. But I will need more since these test kits can give "false positives." Her phone records only have 2 numbers on them besides mine- his cell and his home numbers. I will win in the end.
Ronni_W Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 If by "win" you mean become a mentally and emotionally stronger person, and grow yourself as a parent then, yes, definitely you will win! What are you doing for yourself, these days? To ensure that you do maintain your inner resources and physical strength so that you can be the best guide and role-model for your daughters? Sending hugs and good wishes.
stuckinoz Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Ok I guess I'm ditzy...What is this "Semen Detection Kit"? And, if there is such a thing for men to check women.......what is there for women to check men?
Author Quiet Pro Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 This kit detects Semen in garments. This also works for detecting men as well. If there is large amounts of stains in a man's underwear, he could still be secreting from recent sexual activity. If this is often and HE hasn't been sleeping with you, he either has had a lot of shower time or he has been with someone else. I hate liars!
2sure Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Quiet Pro - In reading some of your other posts, you arent as scary as I thought. You sound sincere. What your wife is doing in trying to make you feel like you are crazy or imaginging things - is called Gaslighting. Yep, it is real and has a name. There are several posts on it here, and I have experienced and posted about the same problem myself.
Sup Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Quiet Pro - In reading some of your other posts, you arent as scary as I thought. You sound sincere. What your wife is doing in trying to make you feel like you are crazy or imaginging things - is called Gaslighting. Yep, it is real and has a name. There are several posts on it here, and I have experienced and posted about the same problem myself. That's correct, that's what it is! BTW, I gave my sis that saying on a suction cup tag that's on your Avatar, she loves it!
theobserver Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 I can't remember who the poster was but there was another member on here whos wife literally made him think he was going crazy, despite all the proof he had. He actually got very sick posting here every few months never quite sure. He finally dumped her ass earlier this year (this all starting from a post not quite the same as yours but very close). You love your daughters that's comendable but I think you're trying to save a sinking ship. Now maybe you came from a family that couldn't quite keep it together, maybe you don't want your children to ever have a step but you know what, your wifes making a fool out of you and there's a good chance she just doesn't love you anymore and wont want things to work. Sometimes the revealing that you know doesn't change much. I'd recommend you divorce, you can still be a good father even if you are not with your wife, nobody will think less of you. I say all this because it's very unlikely you'd get custody and that's just how it is overall this is up to you but you could end up empty handed if you do this wrong and think she will still be by your side at the end of this.
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