Key Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 I emailed my ex like, 2 months ago-He replied, stating "What's Up?" -I replied back, asking him what "mistakes I made in our relationship that made it sour--for future reference". I didn't write the email to him to reconcile WITH him. He was never the 'emotional' type, so of course, I didn't get a response after that. Then, just last Thursday, I emailed, stating "What's up"--just to see how he was doing, b/c I thought maybe we could be friends. Then, I receieved this email: "Can you please stop emailing me. I am no longer interested in you, and I have a girlfriend that Im getting married to." I thought I was over him. I didn't think it would sting me. ( I should be happy that he's moved on....so why I am NOT happy?
Ronni_W Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 The WAY he communicated his information to you was rude and inconsiderate ~ I wouldn't be able to feel too "happy", either. But anyway. WHO said that you "should be" happy that he's moved on? Plus. With this negative attitude, lack of manners, and incredibly poor communication skills that he demonstrated in his most recent email ... maybe HE is the one who made mistakes in your relationship? Or maybe, at the time, he was going through some mental/emotional transition that turned him into this quite unpleasant character that he is now? (((hugs))) At least you now know that any type of friendship with him is impossible...and maybe you don't even want that, anymore?
whichwayisup Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 I think you were hoping and expecting a friendship, or some kind of casual repour with him - And, you didn't get that response from him, instead you got the detached and to the point response. Sorry you're hurting though..
Author Key Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 The WAY he communicated his information to you was rude and inconsiderate ~ I wouldn't be able to feel too "happy", either. But anyway. WHO said that you "should be" happy that he's moved on? Plus. With this negative attitude, lack of manners, and incredibly poor communication skills that he demonstrated in his most recent email ... maybe HE is the one who made mistakes in your relationship? Or maybe, at the time, he was going through some mental/emotional transition that turned him into this quite unpleasant character that he is now? (((hugs))) At least you now know that any type of friendship with him is impossible...and maybe you don't even want that, anymore? The hell I don't want his friendship--or anything else! He couldn't even tell me ANYTHING about our relationship the whole time we were together--and the fact that he's moved on like lickety-split, disturbs me.....but I'll get over it.
Author Key Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 I think you were hoping and expecting a friendship, or some kind of casual rapport with him - And, you didn't get that response from him, instead you got the detached and to the point response. Sorry you're hurting though.. yea--and it sucks! I'm dealing with it. thanks, though.
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