Aquarian66 Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 My ex b/f of 1.5 yrs cheated on me w an online r/s but I just learned about the CHEATING 3 days after I broke up with him. I learned that he was having an online r/s with a woman in another country just as long as we were also 1.5 yrs but they never meet.As of this writing, they have been broken up b/c he was mad that she emailed me informing of her r/s with him too. Is this forgivable?Thank you for your time
sweet&simple Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 I'm confused.. if you're already broken up, what does it matter? Be happy you got out and move on.. it's all the more reason not to go back to him.
MindsEyeBlind Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 If you're broken up it's not cheating
Author Aquarian66 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Posted September 18, 2008 I said it was cheating because my exb/f was having the online relationship with this woman from another country for also 1.5 yrs, same as my relationship with him. He was 2 timing me in the 1.5 yrs of our being together. Thnks again
Author Aquarian66 Posted September 18, 2008 Author Posted September 18, 2008 And I only learned of the cheating ONLY 3 DAYS AFTER I broke up with him.So, it means he had been stringing me along for 1.5 yrs at the same time chatting with a woman overseas...I have another question...will you consider an ONLINE r/s with someone CHEATING? Given, the fact that they never met at all. Just the "I love u very much" "I want u" thing being typed on the computer's keyboard?
sweet&simple Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 That would be called an "emotional affair." Just because he's not physically touching her, doesn't mean he's not having a relationship with her. And no one is saying it doesn't completely suck he did that.. but you're broken up now. Be happy you dumped him.
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