jigga23 Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Yes I know a lot of you are going to say don't go back etc. but it would be nice to hear other opinions. So we recently connected after being apart for 2 years. She lives less than a mile down the road from me now. Weird. We were together for 2 years and lived together. We broke up for two main reasons: 1. She had jealous friends that were doing drugs and just partied way too hard and she was out of control - problem gone cause she has a way different set of friends now. 2. Stressed out about getting her masters degree - graduated and has a job shes happy with. We hung out last weekened slept over and had sex night and morning. That day we basically talked a little bit a bout the past and she apologized and said she loved me etc. I said the same back. Try to call her two days later no reply. Get drunk on friday but held myself back from calling her. But called her saturday morning and we hung out all day and all night. We had for like 3 hours at night and again in the morning. This time we talked about our past relationships in between the time we dated. She kept on saying she changed and has calmed down etc. She told me like a couple of months ago some dude broke down her door dragged her out of the closet by her hair etc. I was like wtf are you doing talking to guys like that? Then she started saying call your ex I wanna see if she is as cool as me. I told her no way. Heres the weird part. I said you save my number yet? She replied and said no I forgot then mentioned she was unsure about hanging out with me. I said quit being a wimp etc. So I dont know if she saved my number or not. Mind you we were both drunk. Then we had sex again. Wake up the next morning sense she wanted to do her thing. I went home. Chilled for like 7 hours. Called her up to watch a movie, we rented one. Sensed she was unsure but said yes. After it was done I said Im going home, she said youre not going to stay? She said you can stay if you want. I said fine but I gotta wake up early. We end up having sex again. When we are together we vibe very well together. She said it seems like the time hasnt gone by between us cause we get along together so well. Not one of us has brought up the status between us or where either of us want things to go. Although she mentions stuff like oh Im so happy being single now and says I could never have a dog, she is taking care of her friends dog (we had a dog together and I still have the dog). Seems like shes disqualifying herself sometimes. To me her actions and words say shes confused and doesnt know what to do. We are very affectionate with each other. Kiss, hold each other, flirt, laugh etc. We do a lot of jokes we had before. So Ive contacted her each time to hang out, she called me back the first time though to hang out. I do want this girl to be my gf again and feel the problems are solved and we are good together and have good lives. I have been having sex with her and initiating the hangouts to get her hooked and give her the attention. Each time I leave on a high note. I just know somehow that she is apprehensive about the whole situation. She even said when were both tipsy after I said to her being an azzhole for making me think about her all day (as a joke) , that im the jerk for popping up in her life again out of the blue. What Im going to do now is just pull a dissappearing act. Think she has my number or atleast knows it by now. Ill wait this week and weekened if no calls Ill call the next weekened and thats it. But I think it should do the trick. I think she doesnt want to be repsponsible for our relationship wether it goes south or north. She might wanna tell me she wants to get back together but she doesnt nor does she call me. But she answers and agrees to hang out. I know her and she would say no or not answer if she didnt. Should I bring it up or just wait till she contacts?
BackonTrack Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 She's giving you a shot. Pretend like the past never existed. Pretend like you don't know her and she's a regular female who is allowing you to have sex n get closer. I would just go with the flow n see where things lead, it doesn't look like she's pulling back though. as far the guy dragging her out the cloest by the hair, well thats a good thing. she know knows the difference between a good guy n a bad guy which is a plus for you.
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