ahhhchooo Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Maybe this is the wrong section to post in but.. I am 1.5 months since break up, I am accepting it now and have been on NC for 9 days. In the past two weeks I have passed up the opportunity to "get busy" twice - I just have no sex drive at all. One was with an ex-gf whom I loved dearly at the time but now just feel absolutely nothing for. She is moderately attractive and I don't know why but the thought just disgusted me. I haven't had sex in nearly 2 months but still I don't crave it. This seems weird because over the past 2 years I didn't go without sex for more than a couple of days at most, since I was always in a relationship. I wonder if I'd even crave it with my ex. Nothing "gets me going" anymore. Is it normal to think and feel this way?
Lizzie60 Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 Maybe this is the wrong section to post in but.. I am 1.5 months since break up, I am accepting it now and have been on NC for 9 days. In the past two weeks I have passed up the opportunity to "get busy" twice - I just have no sex drive at all. One was with an ex-gf whom I loved dearly at the time but now just feel absolutely nothing for. She is moderately attractive and I don't know why but the thought just disgusted me. I haven't had sex in nearly 2 months but still I don't crave it. This seems weird because over the past 2 years I didn't go without sex for more than a couple of days at most, since I was always in a relationship. I wonder if I'd even crave it with my ex. Nothing "gets me going" anymore. Is it normal to think and feel this way? Yes it is.. you are healing from the break-up.. but don't worry your libido will be back.. just give it some time..
EmperorR Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 no im in the same boat, i dont care about sex, im not even attracted to anyone beside my gf, i feel so horrible when we were together id like masturbate to porn yes im horrible n now its been like 12 days and i havent masturbated watched porn nothing, i see hot girls every day n its nothing to me. I as always like a sex fiend when wer were together etc., now eh i hve no sex drive.
Author ahhhchooo Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 Actually I'm the same emperor, as soon as I broke up with my gf I couldn't even bear to watch porn.. I occasionally watched it when we weren't together, when she was away for a few days or whatever. At least I have that interest back now, so I found it really strange to pass up sex and just not be interested at all. I've started to get worried I'll become this completely sexless guy for the rest of my life, my ex-ex was getting all pissed off and insecure saying that she's attractive and she was going to write my ex a nasty email for killing my sex drive, 'cause she could never fight me off with a stick before. I couldn't stop laughing when she said that and it made things even worse.
nowhereman82 Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 You'll be fine My first partner after the ex, I couldn't cumplete no matter how long we went at it. Always at attention but no finale. I was pretty shocked lol But not that I have healed some, it's no longer an issue
sedgwick Posted September 16, 2008 Posted September 16, 2008 In the past two weeks I have passed up the opportunity to "get busy" twice - I just have no sex drive at all. One was with an ex-gf whom I loved dearly at the time but now just feel absolutely nothing for. She is moderately attractive and I don't know why but the thought just disgusted me. This statement disgusts me. I hope you will do that girl the favor of getting out of her life for good and letting her find someone who will consider her more than "moderately attractive." God, this is why I hate men.
Author ahhhchooo Posted September 16, 2008 Author Posted September 16, 2008 This statement disgusts me. I hope you will do that girl the favor of getting out of her life for good and letting her find someone who will consider her more than "moderately attractive." God, this is why I hate men. Well I'm a less than attractive guy, go figure. We were just talking (we tend to do that) and she came on to me. Nothing stirred down south, I didn't know that would happen.
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