used2bspunky Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 I emailed his friend... this girl and I have been in contact throughout the past month or so - she was bewildered as to why we were on this break.. said he seems so sad everytime she sees him. She wanted to ask him how I was, and see what the deal was.. I eventually told her to let things be. If you read myother post you'd know he broke it off with me 2 weeks ago. I last heard from her on Friday and she wanted to talk to him over the weekend. I sent her an email - kind of harsh - to please NOT say anyting about me to him. He doesn't want me in his life, just leave it alone because I need to move on. She responded "Ok! I was hoping it would be this way...." etc. Today I felt badly for sort of being harsh with her in email, so I EMAILED her to apologize.. said i'm sorry too for how it worked out.. I want him happy though.. and know that I cared about him, very much.. that's all, I said. HOW BAD IS IT THAT I EMAILED HER??? I am so mad.. is that breaking the no contact rule?? I mean, he dumped me - pretty much.. and I can't wait for him.. am Ihoping he'll call? sure.. and 2 weeks is long for him, so I'm thinking he is done for good. The way I look at it, it could have been worse.. I could have emailed HIM, right?? Hopefully she won't say anything.. she's been on my side throughout..told me to call her anytime I needed to talk. Up until now she's been a good friend.. but i'm pissed i emailed her. Damnit I need to let go! How bad was that?
nowhereman82 Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Wasn't bad. Reach out where you can...just not towards him. You are doing fine hun. Baby steps and dont beat yourself up
Author used2bspunky Posted September 15, 2008 Author Posted September 15, 2008 Wasn't bad. Reach out where you can...just not towards him. You are doing fine hun. Baby steps and dont beat yourself up Even though she's his friend (not mine). I just feel like I crossed a line.
GrnEyedGemini Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Nah...I think your fine. You didn't contact him in any way, shape, or form. Now if you e-mailed her for info on him or to pass along a message, that'd be different. Just because she was his friend first doesn't mean you can't be friends and/or contact her.
lonelyandfrustrated Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Just because she was his friend first doesn't mean you can't be friends and/or contact her. My best friend now is my ex-bf's ex. Just sayin'.
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