eugene3 Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Ok, long story short. Ex broke it off going on 7 months. Talked to her in august to get the rest of my things from her because she will not for what ever reason mail my things back. Anyway i finally talked to her about a month ago and she called me to say i need to give up hope and that she is not coming back. I said well ok then mail me the rest of my things back since i mailed back yours. She kept doding the subject. So we talked on the phone for 2 hours about our relationship. She said she still cares for me and misses me but not like i miss her. She said there are alot of things she misses but it will not work out. Anyway so the conversation ended like this... I said to her that i will be around her area since she lives a few hours away and since it a issue for her to give me my things back i will meet her to get them. I said maybe we can go to dinner and have drinks to talk since it will also be my birthday. She agreed. I said i will not bother you in anyway from now until then which will be 1 month from now. So this week is the day i will see her. I am nervous for many reasons. It has been 5 months since i last seen her and next i do not know what she will do or even if she will meet me to hang out and talk. She claims she is not with anyone and i am not either. I don't want to ruin a chance with her if there is one. Any suggestions on this issue....??????
Ronni_W Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 she called me to say i need to give up hope and ... She said...it will not work out. I don't want to ruin a chance with her if there is one. May I ask what is preventing you from LISTENING to her and respecting what she has already told you...more than once, by the sounds of things? Get your stuff from her first, and then maybe suggest drinks or whatever. I wouldn't worry to much about "ruining" a non-existent chance - trust what she has already told you, is my suggestion, really.
tommiw Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Be uplifting, careless, charming and easy to talk with. Do not talk about the past and don't tell much about your life. Don't show your true emotions if she says stuff like "I've only had sex-relationships since our break up" (that's what my ex said to me) and be happy, because you live your own life now and try to show that you enjoy it that way. Don't worry, because basically you have nothing to lose.
dcgirl33 Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Just get your things and don't mention the going out for your birthday. If she reminds you and still wants to go out, then maybe you have a chance.
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