The Collector Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 I got what she meant... I just don't know why she had to say it at least three times in three slightly different ways, if she said it once I'd understand but to say it so many times when I'd already understood and then to say it again. It's like she said it once and then she said the same thing in a slightly different way, and then she had to say it at least three times in three slightly different ways, if she said it once I'd understand but to say it so many times when I'd already understood and then to say it again. It's like she said it once and then she said the same thing in a slightly different way, and then she had to say it at least three times in three slightly different ways, if she said it once I'd understand but to say it so many times when I'd already understood and then to say it again. It's like she said it once and then she said the same thing in a slightly different way, and then
Milkflavor123 Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 Alright, coming from someone who is going through this isssue right now, but me I fit more of your boyfriends profile. My boyfriend and I get a long quite well- we do have sex, but lately I have not been getting turned on by him. My reason being, he never tries to romance me before we have sex. its more when he is in the mood he just tries to jump on me and start doing it. There is much you need to do when you try and get someone in the mood. Lately I have been thinking about my ex- and the amazing sex we had which doesn't help, but he was always worried about getting me off, and making sure I was horny in the first place. I think the problem has a lot to do with stress, your thinking too much about the situation. yes watching porn is putting a fantasy in his head which does make it hard for you to compete with. When I say fantasy and compete with, I am meaning- the dirty things they say, or the simple fact they allow you to do anything with their bodies. Its hard to try and turn someone on when they are used to being turned on by backdoor sluts nine, or for me, kissing every inch of my body till I wanted nothing more than him to be inside me haha. Sorry graphic, but its the truth. You begin to need more than what you started off with in highschool. Just a shot of liquor did the trick of turning you on. So basically you guys are just getting older- and are more experienced, and need more to stimulate the body. This is why we have porn shops- with outfits, toys, movies and lube. We need more!! You might possibly try watching porn with him. maybe get both of yourselevs in the mood. maybe try 4 play before engaging in intercourse more times than none. I wouldn't be too worried unless you guys are not having sex at all. Honestly I walk in on my boyfriend all too much maturbating to porn, I apologize for walking in and let him continue. But porn is to be enjoyed which is why you can find it free on the interenet. Its exciting because its normally stuff you do not do yourself. (Fantasy) I wouldn't tell him to stop watching it- infact I think he may find it sexy if you dont have a problem with it.
carhill Posted September 17, 2008 Posted September 17, 2008 :lmao:@ TheCollector.....It's like she said it once and then she said the same thing in a slightly different way, and then ....... Harcourt Fenton Mudd! LOL
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