mistieyed Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 so why this time do i feel only a little twinge versus a spark? this stinks. in the past, i always fell fast for men (fast meaning knew the moment i met them he was someone i wanted to spend time with). the last guy i dated broke my heart something terrible and i finally put myself out there to date again. been talking to this guy for a short time and finally went out - he is great and really likes me but it isn't the same as with others. too nice? not ready to date? not open? i just don't get it. anyone been through this before? any thoughts?
Legend Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 1) you have commitment issues based on past experiences or 2) you like him as a 'friend' and don't want anything more, just company for now
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