shyguy816 Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 First off im in 11th grade and i met this girl in 10th grade, but we really didn't talk much. at the time she had a bf but i just recently found out that she dumped him last year. she is in my last class of the day and we talk all the time about anything. i really like her but im not sure if she likes me. about a week ago we were just talking about random things and she brought up the fact that she is starting to hang out with this guy that she might start dating n we have only been freinds for a couple months (because we didn't talk much enough to consider it a freindship in 10th grade). im not sure but i didn't think girls talked about this stuff to guys that just kinda met, so idk if she is telling me this as a hint that she doesn't really LIKE me or she just didn't know what to talk about and that just happened to come into mind.
Green Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 I'm going to break it down for you... There are an infinite number of things she could be thinking. Maybe she told you to make you jelouse and she thought by telling you this she could see the reaction and it might get you moving toward asking her out... or maybe she did it just for fun... or maybe she doesn't see you as a potential bf so she's just talking her mind and really is interested in this guy... maybe shes interested in either of you.... Point is don't worry about why she told you this, worry about the things you can controll... like if you go to a party over the weekend you should invite her to the party and make sure you end up making out with her... if there is a party you know about this weekend and you dont have her number get the number under the premise you want to take her to the party... just figure some way to hang out with her and then kiss her... don't worry about this other guy... even if she goes on a date with him or what ever you should still try something if you like her... In fact thats the escence of the be yourself thing... do the things you want
TigerCub Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Well either way, the point of her story is that she likes some other guy...I doubt that she told you this as a Hint, she's probably just sharing info with a friend... sorry..
JoeNewbie Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 The odds are she told you about this other guy because you are clearly friend material for her and she is not interested in a romantic relationship with you. It COULD be that she wanted to make you jealous but the odds would be very slim. I would only consider this possibility if she were VERY flirtatious with you and clearly interested.
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