angelbaby1 Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 So I've been on two dates with a coworker. i thought they went well and thought he did too. The 2nd and last date we had was this past Tuesday and except for seeing him at work, he hasn't spoken to me. At work, he is nice, and friendly, but won't ask me out on a third date. When I directly asked him to come over for a movie last night, he said "no, I gotta get to church in the morning, cause I didn't go last week". I thought, ok... maybe then he'll call to set up something during the week. It's the next day, and I stopped into work today and saw him briefly and he was curtious but didn't ask me out again and I caught him looking at my boobs! So, should i assume since he isn't calling me to chat, which he hasn't been doing, that he's not interested? I was thinking of calling himm tonight once he's home from work, but am I pushing things? What's it mean when guys date you but won't call to talk?
TigerCub Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Well some guys just aren't chatty on the phone and that's why they don't call all the time. But, unfortuantely in your case, I'm sensing from what you said that he may not be interested in pursuing any kind of dating relationship. Because I don't know many guys that blow off a chance at hanging out with a girl they like and watching a movie, just because they need to get up early the next day for church. As for catching him looking at your boobs, well that's just a normal guy thing, if I dated every guy that looked at my boobs, I'd be dating half the city. I say since you already made the effort to have another date/get together and he declined, just wait to see if he comes around, but don't chase him. Good luck
dcgirl33 Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Maybe, after the two dates he deided that you two were not a match? Let it go before things get uncomfortable at work.
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