scold2886 Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 Well me and my ex went thru a pretty bad breakup.Im 21 and she 19.The story goes like this 3 months ago she i went to work and she just got up and left with no anwsers. We been together 3 1/2 years. When We first broke up i acted crazy and so did she. We talked here and there but nothing good ever came out of it. Now for the last 3 week's we haven't talked at all i went by the house to see her and she tripped out on me. I told her how i felt and she acted like she dide't care. Now last monday she called me and we been talking all week. She tell's me she wan'ts to work thing's out but take it slow at the same time. I ask her if there was anyone else in her life and she said no just friend's. So this weekend i been talking to her with text messages for the most part. So over this weekend i found out she been with this guy who she only claim's is a friend but stayed there all weekend and that's why i don't think she has called or talked to me that much this weekend. So i called her this morning to see how's she been and we talked she told me she was at a friend's house who is a girl but i think that's a lie because i heard a guy in the backroundand he ask who was on the phone and she said mom befor she hang up. So i text her back asking why she lieing to me if she want's to work this out and she said she wasen't and then told me bye and diden't reply to any of my text messge's. So at this point all week and weekend she telling me that she dont want to lose me and she want's to be together but she not sure and she is confused. I want this to work out so bad.Next saturday i'm supposed to go down there and spend the day with her and maybe even the night. At this point i don't know what to to i want this to work out and she say's she does to but she sending me so many mixed singles. How should i approch this and what should i do about next weekend i need a lot of help here because i'm so confused right now. Does she really want to work this out or not. How should i take this with her she says slow and im trying but it's hard. Im 100 miles away trying to save money and get back to her but im so unsure about what's going thru her head. Please help me and how can i steal her back if she is with another guy. I need all the advice i can get so if you read this please write something. thanks alot guys.
complication Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 I read most of it. She sounds like a nut if she's lying. There's one thing to lie to somebody about NOT being with somebody. If she were honest, she should have said she's seeing what else is out there because this guy gave her a reason to like him. She's keeping you in the background so if the new thing doesn't work she can go back to you. I would not contact her for awhile, let her **** up herself, you should move on and find someone new. If she comes back, know that she is a liar, but it is your choice ot take her back.
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