lovesparis Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 my bf and i have been together about 7mo. whenever we drink, he asks me to marry him. i told him how i don't want to get married anytime soon, that i'm content with our R as is, and if he's going to ask, he better not doing while he's drinking, but still, he just blathers on about how great i am, how much he loves me, how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me etc etc, but if i ask him sober he says no, he didn't mean anything by it. wtf? how do i get him to stop unless he means it?
Lishy Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 Hahhaha I had a boyfriend who did this! I dont know why he did it but every single time he got drunk he would propose and then the next day would tell me that he would marry me but I wouldnt marry him I dont know why he did it but I told him when sober never to do it again. After that he would just say "I would ask you to marry me but you dont want me to!" hahhaha
cybersister Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 wtf? how do i get him to stop unless he means it? I do not understand this- if you do not want to get married surely the question is how to get him to stop period, not " unless he means it " and the answer- seems to be not to get drunk. could you make a joke of it-before you start to drink you agree that the minute he proposes is the time to stop drinking and go to bed ?
Ronni_W Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 how do i get him to stop unless he means it? Is there ANY way that you can just accept that it is something idiotic he does (says) when he is drunk? And just ignore it the same way you'd ignore it if he asked any other stoopid question in his drunken state? When he wants to ask you seriously, rest assured, you WILL know.
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