Brady_to_Moss Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 Girls why are you so confusing! LOL I am getting strong signals that this girl likes me but she has a BF!! What the hell why are all the good ones taken?
prettybaby Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 Flirting with someone else while having a boyfriend? I wouldn't exactly call her a "good one" lol
Balthazar Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 Read my last thread Brady and you'll see I faced the same situation
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted September 14, 2008 Author Posted September 14, 2008 Flirting with someone else while having a boyfriend? I wouldn't exactly call her a "good one" lol Yea i see what your saying. When i first meet her i noticed she couldnt keep her eyes off of me and started talking to me everyday.
cybersister Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 ok, so maybe she is not a good one, but the question remains why would she do this? Either she thinks you are a better catch than her boyfriend but she does not want to let go of one as she could not stand to be alone= worrying. Or she just likes to flirt as it reinforces that she is attractive= equally worrying. IMHO both signs of low self esteem. steer clear.
endlesstrains Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 Are you sure she knew she was flirting? I've noticed that some girls (and even some guys) who are just chatty, friendly people can come across as flirting to those who are single and looking. Some people can be a little clueless and not realize they are sending off signals.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted September 14, 2008 Author Posted September 14, 2008 Are you sure she knew she was flirting? I've noticed that some girls (and even some guys) who are just chatty, friendly people can come across as flirting to those who are single and looking. Some people can be a little clueless and not realize they are sending off signals. Yea. She always says how much she misses me and always tires to get me to visit. I try to visit and hangout but with college and her being an hour away its tough. Should i try not to visit? I really want to hangout and get to know her more.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted September 14, 2008 Author Posted September 14, 2008 She just txted me and said sorry last night if i was a little off on the phone...i was drinking....can i take any of that talk serious?
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 I wouldn't take any of it seriously. Girls like that are dime a dozen "attention whores" - the only sense of validation and self worth they have is to flirt with other guys, since they lack the emotional maturity to find it within themselves and through their existing relationships.
monkey00 Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 I've encountered women who flirt with someone when the opportunity arises even if they're in a relationship. There are many reasons behind it: They may be unhappy in their relationship. They are happy with the relationship but flirt friendly. They want to cheat/sleep around, but never have the balls to go through with it. They hope to upgrade their bf. But regardless the situation, a serious word of advice is just to avoid these kind of women. Often the case is they spell trouble, and simply it's not worth the bother. I find the more mentally healthy women to be the ones who break up with their bfs first before flirting around/looking for another mate.
nopainnogain Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 because she wants her cake and eat it too.
High Plains Drifter Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 I've encountered women who flirt with someone when the opportunity arises even if they're in a relationship. There are many reasons behind it: They may be unhappy in their relationship. They are happy with the relationship but flirt friendly. They want to cheat/sleep around, but never have the balls to go through with it. They hope to upgrade their bf. But regardless the situation, a serious word of advice is just to avoid these kind of women. . Meh...if you're lookin' to get married, then sure, avoid 'em...but otherwise, what's the harm?
Legend Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 first chapter in the bible teaches that women are deceitful....
The Collector Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 first chapter in the bible teaches that women are deceitful.... ..and are suckers for a charming snake.
monkey00 Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Meh...if you're lookin' to get married, then sure, avoid 'em...but otherwise, what's the harm? Honestly I don't think there's a lot of harm. But it depends on what her agenda may be.
smidgeon36 Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 I wouldn't take it seriously. On one count flirting is fun. End of story. Both my boyfriend and I are flirts. And both of us are secure enough in our relationship to accept that. And most of our friends know us well enough not to take our flirting seriously. On another count saying she misses you and you should hang out is not really flirting at all. Hell, I'm in the process of trying to get one of my guy friends to move across the country 'cause he's got no friends left in his state and I think he should come chill with me here; and I do, in fact, miss him and want to hang out with him. It's not harmful flirtation until there's a sexual connotation. Though I may have a looser definition than most, mine rhymes, so it must be right.
FormerNiceGuy Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Girls why are you so confusing! LOL I am getting strong signals that this girl likes me but she has a BF!! What the hell why are all the good ones taken? Just leave it and go for the millions of girls that are single. A girl like that, with a boyfriend, is going to open up a can of worms if you take it the wrong way. And if by some chance, she leaves him to go with you, what makes you think she won't do the same to you.
D-Jam Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 Girls why are you so confusing! LOL I am getting strong signals that this girl likes me but she has a BF!! Big difference between a woman who really liked you and a woman who just wants attention from you. Be careful not to mistake the two. If she really wanted you then she would tell you and end things with the boyfriend. If she just wants your attention, then you're easily interchangeable in her eyes. What the hell why are all the good ones taken? An attractive single woman with her head and life in order is very rare. Seems like you only get a choice of two. Either attractive and life in order, but taken...or life in order and single, but unattractive...and so on. SOCIAL CAPITAL is the key though. I would not have met my current GF if it hadn't been for my friend introducing us. This good woman I am dating isn't at the bars or clubs, nor is she on dating sites. She works, comes home, takes care of her bird and plants, goes out with friends, etc. It's all luck...right place at the right time. Make friends, know people, do things. Be confident, happy, pleasant, and fun. Eventually someone's going to see you and think about that girl who doesn't go out much and is lonely. The one who might be attractive, single, and life/head in order. I've come to conclude the "good ones" are not out with a big welcome sign up...so you gotta have lines in the water and see who bites.
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