AngelinaS Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 Hi All, Please help. Since I am in the situation and cannot analyze the situation without bias and emotions. Please help. 1. Last time when he was going to US, he just left without telling me. I mean he told me that he is leaving but he didn't call. 2. When I called him, he said phone was not with him (Later next day he said) but on the same phone, he answered a colleague of mine after I called up. 3. When I sent him an SMS to find out if he left or still in India, he had the phone answered by a colleague of mine after he left saying that he was very busy. Commmon...how long does it take to answer a call? 4. That time his GC got rejected and he had to come back. When he came back, i tried to help on the GC Renewal procedure. But after everything he went to embassy got it renewed and then left to US again without informing me about the GC status. I sent him an SMS while he was very much in India, but he had the phone answered by a colleague of mine after he left saying that he was very busy. Commmon...how long does it take to answer a call? 5. After going to US, he calls my colleague but not me, and tells him that he has reached US. Only after 3 days, he leaves a message as an answer to my messages that he reached and that he was busy etc. 6. Completely no contact after that for a week. I come to know that he and another girl are on the same project. Would she be the reason for not calling me up? 7. After that same for another week and then he comes on chat and says why i didn't call? 8. He used to be online till late nights earlier in India and whenever he would go to US. Not anymore. By 10PM he claims he is asleep. 9. Could something be going wrong? 10. Btw, the other day, i was little upset as he was talking about that other girl who is on the project with him, and then he says 'I don't understand why you become so dull so often. Let me also be like you. I will be bland, emotionless and cold with you from now onwards. I don't like to do it but this is the only way to make you lively." It doesn't make sense to me. Does it to you? He stopped talking to after that other than about work. BTW, I work for him. It's his company. One more thing, I tried to remind him of a colleague's birthday so he could wihs her and he says he knows it. He never remembers mine though. Could he be searching for reasons to avoid me and do you think he needs me only for work? They will not be able to get another person like me. I have lots of experience and good IT track record. Am I just getting suspicious or would anyone feel like neglected, if they are treated this way?
Recommended Posts