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Problem is, CW that it HAS happened. thats the problem. And often its too damn late. Trust has been broken. Marriage is worthless.

 

I agree. What matters not is why, but that it DID in fact happen.

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Why don't you come up with an idea of your own..instead of making your snide comments.. geezzzz... at least some of us are 'original'

 

You noticed that, too, Lizzie?;)

 

How utterly boring!! Once a broken record always a broken record!!:eek:

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You noticed that, too, Lizzie?;)

 

How utterly boring!! Once a broken record always a broken record!!:eek:

 

Still doesn't change the fact she took a stab at the guy. And what a surprise that is.

 

And if its utterly boring, then why bother to reply? I know, you cheaters and OW gotta stick together.

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You noticed that, too, Lizzie?;)

 

How utterly boring!! Once a broken record always a broken record!!:eek:

 

Exactly.. :mad: It is getting ridiculous! really... each time we say something that is NOT to 'their' standards of moral or whatnot... they have to be arrogant or plain rude..

 

Some people are so bitter that it's pathetic... :sick:

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Still doesn't change the fact she took a stab at the guy. And what a surprise that is.

 

And if its utterly boring, then why bother to reply? I know, you cheaters and OW gotta stick together.

 

That wasn't a stab.. what's wrong with thinking that the same thing that happened to ME has happened to HER... I fell out of love with my partner.. what's is soooo unbelievable about that.. gosh..

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Some people are so bitter that it's pathetic...

 

Absolutely! If they weren't so pathetic, I might almost feel sorry for them!;)

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You noticed that, too, Lizzie?;)

 

How utterly boring!! Once a broken record always a broken record!!:eek:

 

I think some LoSers need to get laid :laugh:... They are probably jealous cause I get all the sex I want.. whenever I want... with who I want.. ;)

 

0r should I say.. 'WE'.. lol

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I think some LoSers need to get laid :laugh:... They are probably jealous cause I get all the sex I want.. whenever I want... with who I want.. ;)

 

For sure! Not to mention any names but celibacy makes people bitter, mean-spirited,ugly and BORING,BORING,BORING!!!;)

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For sure! Not to mention any names but celibacy makes people bitter, mean-spirited,ugly and BORING,BORING,BORING!!!;)

 

 

the worst thing.. is that they're not all 'celibate'... ;)

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the worst thing.. is that they're not all 'celibate'...

 

Or badly fu**** as they say in my country!!

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I think some LoSers need to get laid :laugh:... They are probably jealous cause I get all the sex I want.. whenever I want... with who I want.. ;)

 

0r should I say.. 'WE'.. lol

 

Seems like you two have gotten all the attention again, taking over a thread. Besides what you said is not very classy.

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I cant really say anything for a marriage. Other than women or men become sexually frustrated. There are things we are not satisfyed with, but I feel if your in a marrage, things should be discussed before ever cheating on someone.

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I was in a terrible relationship before all of this happened. Everything about the relationship was terrible and I questioned myself all the time. I tried breaking up with the person, and nothing ever ever seemed to work. Finally one day, I met this guy, it was almost like a miracle, a blessing in disguise. I broke up with the horrible relationship and started spending all my time with the new guy. Everything we had was so passionate. Then one day his ex girlfriend came in the picture. I was still happy that I had met someone who took my mind off the horrible relationship that took me so long to get over.

Even with the ex girlfriend back in the picture, the guy and I continued to talk. Almost having a relationship on the side. About 7 months, this continued. Him and I spent more time together then his girlfriend and him. So to me, it didnt bother me. After awhile, after my heart couldnt take anymore of him and I not actually having a relationship, it more or less just being a cheating fling , It started becoming less and less we would hang out, since he was still in love with this girl.

I myself

was having problems at home, and was about to move out of my house, and when I moved into this house, I starting dating one of my roommates. We got along so well, and I know its never a good idea to date a roommate. But I was falling for him and chose to disregard it. My feelings for the other guy were starting to fade, so everythiing was going good. Well the guy breaks up with his girlfriend and comes crawling to me, since now he is ready. At first, I was just polite with him, since I had found someone new. Then as time went by, I realized I was still secretly in love him. I tried to avoid my feelings, but everytime he would tell me how much he loved me. My heart would become weak, eventually leading to me cheating on my boyfriend. I felt terrible for what I had done, so i told my boyfriend. He forgave me since it was still very early in the relationship. I stopped talking to the guy for about a month, just to keep thinking about him since my boyfriend and I were having problems with him being addicted to drugs. I told my boyfriend that I still had strong feelings for this other guy and he tells me to stay with him while I get over the feelings for the other guy.

 

Well now on month 9 with my boyfriend, I grew strong feelings for him. Where I felt it was love- but clearly its not if I am still thinking about this other guy still- plus him and I are still good friends. Its a weird situation- and I am confused. And I am pretty much an idiot, but h*** live and learn right.

But now- in lust/love with two people. Am I still in love with this other guy because he is the one who saved me from the terrible realtionship?

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Exactly.. :mad: It is getting ridiculous! really... each time we say something that is NOT to 'their' standards of moral or whatnot... they have to be arrogant or plain rude..

 

Some people are so bitter that it's pathetic... :sick:

 

LOL, this coming from a "woman" that brags about sleeping with other women's husbands and puts the wives of her OM down.

 

And you want to talk about pathetic? Oh brother.

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That wasn't a stab.. what's wrong with thinking that the same thing that happened to ME has happened to HER... I fell out of love with my partner.. what's is soooo unbelievable about that.. gosh..

 

Because the guy is hurting because of people like his wife, and people like you, and you go and make a comment the way you did.

 

Why don't you just say, "maybe you were a loser and she realized that?"

At least that'd be on par with your attitude towards the betrayed.

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Seems like you two have gotten all the attention again, taking over a thread. Besides what you said is not very classy.

 

do you really expect anything more jmargel?

 

Anyway, enough threadjacking, back to the OP's problem.

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Wow.. Bish you seem to follow me around.. :laugh:

 

You follow me on all the threads I post to 'quote' me.. now I'm sure you're obsessed with me.. but I can't say I blame you.. ;) Men usually get obsessed with me.. :p

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Wow.. Bish you seem to follow me around.. :laugh:

 

You follow me on all the threads I post to 'quote' me.. now I'm sure you're obsessed with me.. but I can't say I blame you.. ;) Men usually get obsessed with me.. :p

 

And as I said in the other thread, sorry sugar....I'm not weak minded like the so-called "men" that are married that you seem to be easy to sway.

 

Some men have a sense of dignity and don't think with their peckers.

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You noticed that, too, Lizzie?;)

 

How utterly boring!! Once a broken record always a broken record!!:eek:

 

 

That says a whole lot about the both of you!:p:rolleyes:

Posted
Exactly.. :mad: It is getting ridiculous! really... each time we say something that is NOT to 'their' standards of moral or whatnot... they have to be arrogant or plain rude..

 

Some people are so bitter that it's pathetic... :sick:

 

 

Said the pot to the kettle!:rolleyes:

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Said the pot to the kettle!:rolleyes:

 

 

:lmao: another 'obsessed' with me.. geeezzz... :rolleyes:

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:lmao: another 'obsessed' with me.. geeezzz... :rolleyes:

 

 

HA! You Wish!:p:lmao: Don't flatter yourself Liz!:sick: After all, before long you'll grow old grey headed and wrinkley, then what will you have?:rolleyes::sick:

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HA! You Wish!:p:lmao: Don't flatter yourself Liz!:sick: After all, before long you'll grow old grey headed and wrinkley, then what will you have?:rolleyes::sick:

 

 

I'll have memories that you'll only wish you had.. :lmao:

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I'll have memories that you'll only wish you had.. :lmao:

 

 

But, you'll be all alone!:eek:

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By the way, do you have some sort of sex addiction? That could really cause a serious rash!

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