leamer Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 i broke up with my exgf to explore what other girls are like because i was a virgin when i got with her and she had already slept with like 20 guys but I still wanted to be friends. this lead to about a month of her begging me to come back where we talked and saw each other once in a while but i told her i couldnt commit to a lifelong relationship without knowing what else is out there. during that month my friend was always making jokes about how he's going to sleep with her and because of some personal stuff between me and most of my friends him and his brother were the only two friends i had left... plus i talked to my exgf about twice a week to make sure she was ok... so then after a month goes by my friend says a cheezy pick up line to my girlfriend on myspace and they started hanging out, and within two weeks having sex... now both my friends are super awkward around me because one of them is banging my exgf, and i dont talk to her because she stole my last friend, and i'm all alone and depressed with absolutely noone to talk to.. until i go back to college at the end of the month where i can hopefully make new friends so i got a whole load of dirt on my exgf that would make my d-bag of a friend disgusted by even looking at her and i could ruin the slut's life once again.. should i?
Tony T Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 so i got a whole load of dirt on my exgf that would make my d-bag of a friend disgusted by even looking at her and i could ruin the slut's life once again.. should i? You don't have any decent friends because of silly stuff like this. You need to change your entire life and your attitude. You don't need to ruin anybody's life...you need to get YOUR OWN LIFE straightened out. Don't use your time on this kind of crap. Become a better person and attract good friends and decent romance into your life. Right now all you bring into your life is trash.
lonelygurl Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 Your "friend" is really not a friend if he went after your xgf, that is a cruel thing to do, but that being said, you can't control what others do. It sounds to me like you have dumped her physically but not emotionally. What are you going to gain by spreading nasty stuff about her? why does it bother you so much your friend is dating her? She is free to date or have sex with whoever she wants. Also, peoples past should be just that....the past. Maybe she has done things in the past that are not great, but what gives you the right to spread it. It will only cause more hurt and pain and I don't think you will get the results you expect and it may backfire. This friend might not care, I'm sure his past isn't perfect either. I suggest you get rid of the friend and try to make new friends. Some relationship boards have chats and I made several male and female friends in flirt years ago, and several of the men had become friends from there.
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