Do alot of girls choose a guy based on looks only?

[Brady_to_Moss]

I am a guy and i think alot do in my age area (19). I am tall and skinny but have a big gut and i hate it. I just cant lose it. This makes me selfconscious and i hate it.

[Tony T]

I am a guy and i think alot do in my age area (19). I am tall and skinny but have a big gut and i hate it. I just cant lose it. This makes me selfconscious and i hate it.

 

I think what's true for both men and women... good looks gets you in the door. Upon initial meeting, looks and a few words of conversation is all a person has to go by. I don't think looks can take a person to the finish line but it can keep some chemicals flowing for a time. If other characteristics a person values are not there, all the good looks in the world are for naught...depending on the person.

[cybersister]

sense of humour is the most important

I have to admit I like a tall man though.

and not too skinny- I like something to cuddle

 

( nb I am overweight - I guess there has to be a bit of realism here- we are none of us perfect- would you turn down a girl for not being slim ?)

[Brady_to_Moss]

sense of humour is the most important

I have to admit I like a tall man though.

and not too skinny- I like something to cuddle

 

( nb I am overweight - I guess there has to be a bit of realism here- we are none of us perfect- would you turn down a girl for not being slim ?)

 

I like girls with some weight on them..not alot but i like that bigger type of girl. But they dont seem to like skinny guys so that sucks for me

[Yamaha]

Looks is important. If your interested in someone it is usually based on if your attracted, sexually. After you get to know them then other factors come into play but to get the ball rolling it requires some interest from both parties and that is based on looks, attraction.

[Jazzy56]

Almost all relations start on attraction.

[Mitch_N_Fez]

Yea brother. Looks get you in the door. But everything else you offer comes in to play afterwards.

 

I wouldn't be too concerned with your gut. But I thought you said you were skinny? ANyways, girls do like some meat to their men brother. Trust me. It's just like men. Yea, you want a girl who is in shape but you want some meat on the chick. "More cushion for the pushin'"!

 

Also, why else do you think fat chicks get laid? Guys all want the healthier sized women. Same goes for girls seeking ass. Seriously, who hasn't gone hoggin' once in their life? I know I have...

[D-Lish]

Looks are the first thing that attract people to one another... but looks don't sustain anything long term unless both parties or one of the parties are shallow.

 

I have a friend who is beautiful- and she has been dating a guy who is beautiful.... and all they ever do is compliment each other on how "beautiful" they are. I have tried to have conversations with him... but he always has that "stunned/retarded" look to him and it's like talking to a chocolate bar. Looks good, taste's good.... but that's it.

 

People will naturally be attracted visually first. But people with substance will never be captivated long term with people who offer little else than a nice exterior.

 

Remember- we all have different taste's! I have very little meat on me- so if you like meat on a girl.... I won't be your cup of tea. An overly buff guy isn't my type... too much muscle is yucky to me. It's all relative.

Looks will play an important part on a first meeting... but we all prefer different attributes. Chemistry isn't something you can nail down.

I've dated guys close to my same weight- and I've dated guys twice my weight.... but whatever it was about them- I just felt it when I met them.

That's chemistry.... stop trying to figure it out, because you can't.

 

I think one common attribute I can see as being an attraction factor is EYES.

 

But- if I date someone for a bit- and they are stupid, or mean, or lacking in vibrancy... I'll leave them. There is more to attraction than looks alone- it will just be the first thing people have to go on.... because it's what we see.... so what we see is the first thing that assaults our senses.

 

Wear a baggy Tee or a man blouse and stand up straight- no one will see your little beer gut...lol. I dated a skinny guy that drank too much beer and had a bit of a gut.... but he was still sexy as hell. I broke up with him because he was stupid- not because of his body.

[Rooster_DAR]

Almost all relations start on attraction.

 

 

This statement says it all.

[Amy22]

With my current boyfriend initally I wasn't attracted to him. I would never tell him that. But he is really really skinny. Weighs a lot less then me. I found that once I got to know him. I was more attracted to him. I loved his personality. We have been together almost 4 years now and I think he is sexy. I think when you first meet someone there is physical attraction and emotional attraction. This has taught me that even if I am not physically attracted to someone the first few dates. It is something that can come later. I don't think I would ever blow someone off based on looks now because your attraction can change on like the fourth date. This may be TMI but we have the best sex life. Even though I didn't feel that physical attraction our first few dates and his looks are not the normal type I would go for.

 

I would say not to be to hard on yourself. Everyone finds different looks as attractive. Someone might like skinny people and some may like more meat. And then a person can find out that they love someone that isn't the normal type they would go for. Good Luck

[Trialbyfire]

I met a guy at Starbuck's a few weeks back who appeared to be the poster child for a thirty-something CK ad. Unfortunately, after talking to him for a few minutes, it became apparent that there was nothing upstairs. And that was the end of it. I couldn't get away fast enough. What a waste.

 

Looks help for a few minutes.

[Green]

No girls don't really choose on looks... but if your a guy and as good looking as me it makes it as easy as shooting fish in a barrel... I've never shot fish in a barrel but how hard could it be. The real trick is ultra confidence. You see people always say be yourself... but the truth is it takes confidence to figure out who you are and then to execute that. Find your inner confidence and stop being a wuss. And your 19 should be easy to get a six pack set of abs... with that said I could still get hot chicks if I was mini me

[mrsT]

I don't go for some generic canned good looks. There is a look that feels right and comfortable to me. Maybe you could call it a familiar face... certain types of eyes, certian mannerisms, certain body type. That is more important to me then whether the person is classically handsome. I don't really care if what appeals to me appeals to someone else. It has to be someone I could have sex with. But I have rarely seen this face in my life. I am always surprised when other people don't find the people I am attracted to handsome. To each his own and beauty is in the eye of the beholder is very true. You will find somone who is attracted to you. Have faith and don't buy the marketing that makes you feel bad about yourself. It's a racket.

[Krajt]

Look are important to both genders, but each and everyone one of us different, ergo we will find different people attractive. Confidence, looks, cologne and chivalry all help a man charm the lingerie of a woman. Oh! Having intelligence, an interesting personality and charisma help too, just ask Obama, women love him including Sarah Palin.

[JooLee]

i know i go for looks but i had one case where i didnt find this guy attractive only until i started knowing him better and suddenly he was so hot i couldnt wait to rip his shirt off.