I dont trust anyone but myself....this a problem?

[Brady_to_Moss]

I cant trust girls when i have seen what ive seen..... I just think they are all unfaithfull.

[cybersister]

yes, it is a problem.

Sure if you do not trust you will not be disappointed. But neither will you be delighted, entranced, bewitched, amazed.

we all get our hearts broken from time to time.

the trick is to make sure they break open , not shut so we can love again

[Rooster_DAR]

I cant trust girls when i have seen what ive seen..... I just think they are all unfaithfull.

 

I don't think it's all that bad, depending on you treat them. For me, people including women have to earn my trust, although a small trust level exists to keep me human.

 

I've been stung pretty hard so I tend not to trust women at first, but I have at least learned how to tell which kinds of women to not trust. Women that talk to much, or boast about themselves are the worst including feminist. Also, watch out for women who are vocal about their independence, they have issues too.

 

Cheers!

[watermeloncandy]

i can definitely assure you that we aren't all unfaithful, but i completely understand how you feel, having been burned a few times myself. i try not to think that all men are dogs, but it's hard.

and because of it i have trust issues...i'm now going for therapy and hopefully will learn how to trust again....

for me, trust is earned, not a given. and i know that's probably not healthy....