Brady_to_Moss Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 I feel like that...3 years ago i think a girl liked me but havent a clue. Ive never been a crush. Wish i was...might be kinda fun LOL
cheezy100 Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 I feel like that...3 years ago i think a girl liked me but havent a clue. Ive never been a crush. Wish i was...migh be kinda fun lol I've never thought of that. I'm more the type that have crushes than being somebody's crush. Maybe because I'm not attractive. I'm not skinny, but i'm not overly fat. I guess I'm chubby and short. But being liked is really nice. A guy i'm dating now says I have many qualities that makes me attractive, and it's not just appearance. He's actually pretty buff and tall, average looking. I would never have imagined myself dating someone like that. Or someone like that would be interested in me. Of course, he honestly told me that all men first look at appearance, then personality. He told me he likes me, which actually really makes me feel happy and more confident about myself. i've never told him about my issue with my body image though. I still act like I'm totally fine with the way I look when with him.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted September 13, 2008 Author Posted September 13, 2008 I've never thought of that. I'm more the type that have crushes than being somebody's crush. Maybe because I'm not attractive. I'm not skinny, but i'm not overly fat. I guess I'm chubby and short. But being liked is really nice. A guy i'm dating now says I have many qualities that makes me attractive, and it's not just appearance. He's actually pretty buff and tall, average looking. I would never have imagined myself dating someone like that. Or someone like that would be interested in me. Of course, he honestly told me that all men first look at appearance, then personality. He told me he likes me, which actually really makes me feel happy and more confident about myself. i've never told him about my issue with my body image though. I still act like I'm totally fine with the way I look when with him. Yea everyone has their own look they are looking for. I feel the same as you did. I cant imagine myself dating a good looking, nice girl. I know its a HORRIBLE attitude but i have it. Guess i just havent meet that girl yet. I am tall and skinny and go out. I have just never had a girl want to date me before.
SilkLeaves Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 I felt like this about a year ago, and thought I would be happy with anyone who had feelings for me. As soon as this thought occured to me, a guy said he had feelings for me. I got so carried away with the fact that someone openly liked me that I overlooked the fact that I didn't like him back. After a while I felt trapped, and had to hurt his feelings a lot as a result. it felt terrible. I've learnt a lot from that. That's my input
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