sunshinegirl Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 I know AC, I wish I could force myself to hate him. I wish it were possible. I cannot even imagine going out on dates. I think I would barf if anyone else tried to kiss me. I just can't stop thinking this is all my fault, and that if I'd just been less or something or more of something or done something differently or better, he might still be here. Perfect! That way you're still enlarging your social circle by meeting new people, but not forcing yourself into a new relationship before you're ready by hurling on their shoes if they get physical. Win-win.
Art_Critic Posted September 15, 2008 Posted September 15, 2008 The first time I had sex after getting divorced I felt like I was cheating on her.. even though we had been separated 7 months and the divorce had been final months before I still couldn't get that crap out of my mind.. This part should have read : The first time I had sex after getting divorced I felt like I was cheating on her.. even though we had been separated 7 months and the divorce had been final months before I still couldn't get that crap out of my mind.. and I was over her.. I just had been so invested in the marriage that I was still feeling the whole vows thing tug at the back of my mind. I kinda think you are the same as me.. I do believe you are mostly over him.. but you were invested so highly that you are still feeling the tug...
Author sedgwick Posted September 15, 2008 Author Posted September 15, 2008 It's encouraging to me that you feel I'm mostly over him. I mean, I love my life, it's a lot of fun. I have a good education, a good job, and I'm fulfilling my dreams. I have a lot to be happy about, and I am happy. But I would be happier if he were here to share it with me. It would all be a lot more fun if he would let me be a part of his life.
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