Flowerpower7 Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 male friend of mine has suddenly changed the way he acts around me. He always use to be calm and able to talk to me with full eye contact. Now he is nervous with shaky, sweaty hands and his eyes dart away when i am talking to him. He is a shy-guy. So what soes this mean?
Author Flowerpower7 Posted September 13, 2008 Author Posted September 13, 2008 we are in our 30's and have been friends for about 2 years now. Like I said he has always been able to maintain eye contact with me and was always calm around me. lately within the last few weeks he has become nervous with shaky hands and he darts his eyes around (looks at me, looks away, looks back). We only see each other maybe once a week but mostly chat thru email.
jadedone Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 we are in our 30's and have been friends for about 2 years now. Like I said he has always been able to maintain eye contact with me and was always calm around me. lately within the last few weeks he has become nervous with shaky hands and he darts his eyes around (looks at me, looks away, looks back). We only see each other maybe once a week but mostly chat thru email. Drugs. or maybe he feels guilty about something.
buzzie2 Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 Usually not being able to look someone in the eye is a sign of guilt. It sounds like your friend is feeling guilty about something. Or maybe (this is just a crazy thought) he has started having sexual feelings for you and has been fantasizing about you. This would explain why he feels guitly or nervous around you.
Ocean-Blue Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 we are in our 30's and have been friends for about 2 years now. Like I said he has always been able to maintain eye contact with me and was always calm around me. lately within the last few weeks he has become nervous with shaky hands and he darts his eyes around (looks at me, looks away, looks back). We only see each other maybe once a week but mostly chat thru email. Could it be a medical condition?
Author Flowerpower7 Posted September 13, 2008 Author Posted September 13, 2008 Thanks for all your answers. Its not a medical condition or guilt. Guilty looks are eyes that dont and cant meet while looking down and away. He doesnt do that!
Generic Username Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 Thanks for all your answers. Its not a medical condition or guilt. Guilty looks are eyes that dont and cant meet while looking down and away. He doesnt do that! Sounds like he has some new found feelings about you. Maybe since he's shy he was telling himself the whole time there's nothing there out of protecting himself and now he's opening up to the possibility?
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