Brady_to_Moss Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 My good friend who is a girl has this very pretty friend. But we hangout with diffrent people and i maybe see her only like twice a week just walking. Is it hard to start to talk to someone like this...how would i go about it? Talk to my friend who is good friends with her? Start a convo on AIM or Facebook? Thanks for the help guys
Trialbyfire Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 Perhaps you should find out if she's a wheat or oat girl through discussions with your friend. This way you can find out what her likes and dislikes are, so you have something to talk about. Good luck with your harvest!
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted September 12, 2008 Author Posted September 12, 2008 Perhaps you should find out if she's a wheat or oat girl through discussions with your friend. This way you can find out what her likes and dislikes are, so you have something to talk about. Good luck with your harvest! I really want to ask my friend about her but she always gets mad at me..." Your always using me for my friends" and i am like...are you kidding me?
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted September 12, 2008 Author Posted September 12, 2008 I am trying to get my friend to go do something tomorrow with me and bring her friend so at least we can hangout.
xpaperxcutx Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 How close are you with your friend? You can ask her for her friend's contact so you can get in touch with her.
Lizzie60 Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 with someone you barley know? I say take it with a whole grain of salt.. sorry couldn't resist.. that was too funny.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted September 13, 2008 Author Posted September 13, 2008 How close are you with your friend? You can ask her for her friend's contact so you can get in touch with her. I have most of her information i just dont know how to introduce myself when we have never talken and i barley see her.
cheezy100 Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 My good friend who is a girl has this very pretty friend. But we hangout with diffrent people and i maybe see her only like twice a week just walking. Is it hard to start to talk to someone like this...how would i go about it? Talk to my friend who is good friends with her? Start a convo on AIM or Facebook? Thanks for the help guys Okay, coming from just a recent experience. I met a guy at the club. We don't know each other, of course. He came up to me and just started to talk about various topics: music, food, employment, school, etc. Danced a bit. I personally like a guy that is open and can TALK about anything. The first date, we pretty much introduced each other again. Talked about our favorite food, music, hobbies, interests, family, animals...etc. We seriously don't know each other, but now I feel like we know each other for months but it's only been 1 month. I would recommend, if you really want to FISH HER OUT OF THE POOL, (like what he did to me) is to just build up some rapport and go for it. If she rejects you, then try again. Don't be shy. I think what attracted me to this guy is that he's not shy, not afraid to be rejected, and is very outgoing/sociable. The key thing here is to just talk about anything, make jokes (MAKE HER LAUGH), and just seem like you want to know her more. This is what HE DID to me, so maybe it will work for you too.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted September 13, 2008 Author Posted September 13, 2008 Okay, coming from just a recent experience. I met a guy at the club. We don't know each other, of course. He came up to me and just started to talk about various topics: music, food, employment, school, etc. Danced a bit. I personally like a guy that is open and can TALK about anything. The first date, we pretty much introduced each other again. Talked about our favorite food, music, hobbies, interests, family, animals...etc. We seriously don't know each other, but now I feel like we know each other for months but it's only been 1 month. I would recommend, if you really want to FISH HER OUT OF THE POOL, (like what he did to me) is to just build up some rapport and go for it. If she rejects you, then try again. Don't be shy. I think what attracted me to this guy is that he's not shy, not afraid to be rejected, and is very outgoing/sociable. The key thing here is to just talk about anything, make jokes (MAKE HER LAUGH), and just seem like you want to know her more. This is what HE DID to me, so maybe it will work for you too. Thanks! I am just going to talk to her when i feel like it and not worry..plenty of fish in the sea right?
Green Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 The plenty of fish in the sea approach is the best one to take, and its also the most mature cause seriously you don't know this girl at all so you really should stop yourself from getting all obsessed over her. Obviously talking to her in person the next time you see her and just asking flat out for her number because you enjoy talking or what ever is the best aproach, the next best approach is your friend and the least attractive approach is randomly msging her on the internet... and even the least attractive one is better then doing nothing... but You don't need to know some one well to have a flirtatios or fun interaction and then start building a relationship people do it all the time
Trialbyfire Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 Flax is a good alternative to barley. Perhaps I judged too soon with my suggestions of wheat or oats. I also agree with the "ask her out" methodology. You'll never find out unless you ask.
Green Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 Just be yourself... the self that doesn't come up with a bunch of excuses not to do the things you want... Like if you had just followed instincts instead of being afraid of rejection I'm sure you would have had a nice convo with the girl maybe even slapped her butt or made out... heck sex even by now... or u would have been rejected and that would be that, but theres a secret I've learned Girls have really hard time saying no to almost anything in person... and if they like you enough to spend some time with you .... then you really end up growning on them and its like good to be the king
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted September 14, 2008 Author Posted September 14, 2008 Can i ask her out after just saying a few words to her? Since i dont know her at all it will be werid but i just gotta go for it.
Green Posted September 14, 2008 Posted September 14, 2008 Can i ask her out after just saying a few words to her? Since i dont know her at all it will be werid but i just gotta go for it. 100% of the people I ever went out with I barely knew before dating I mean I've always dated some girl I met at a party or a girl in class who I had rarely spoken to or some one I met on the net. Don't just walk up to her and ask her out, have a flirty conversation that shows her you guys have romantic chemestry and then ask her for the number because you want hang out some time.
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